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boeing777 y u no love LYN but love HWZ?

swinging group sounds nice and all but I personally keep track of the community and 99% of the women are below average, even the bulls have better fitness and have a higher average quality when compared to the women. it's as if the women are the ones getting a good deal in the swinging community.

who is she?

onlyfans ka?

Why he never gets HIV, STD or STI?
Some people curi makan only once sudah kena see Dr for treatment of STD

Most guys would HAPPILY PAY to have sex with beautiful women.
And you think GETTING PAID to have sex with beautiful women would make them DEPRESSED? 🤦‍♂️

when live in the US, with 40% tax, and with gun shoots everyday. a shit hole country - that's success.

when forever a secondary citizen, he can't change his skin color. any time, someone will phew phew phew shoot in the face - that's success.

when butt hole is zoomed by 20 cameras being watched by 20 production team correcting your positions, angle, and facial expression. wow, that is so nice, living the dream - that's success.

when not much different from prostitute who sleeps with 20 men a day - that's success.
sex for fun, and sex for getting paid is very different. 'success' is very lowly defined in this forum.

Ohh, like that ah.

You want to go down that road...

Hiring prostitutes is also work.

Not for you, but for the prostitute.

And often, this shows... She gives you attitude, she clock-watches, can't kiss, can't touch here, can't touch there, being scolded like some useless beta male, rushes you, must shower, must use condom, must use lube, she's not going to do anything for you beyond what's absolutely necessary, zero enthusiasm, black face, all duty performative sex, some don't even mask their contempt for you, etc.

You paint it like some kind of idyllic experience where it's Paradise on earth... it's not. It's just your average escort-hiring experience.

It used to be some of these escorts provide "GFE" (girlfriend experience), but that's becoming less common, not more common.

Why? Because men are damn dumb nowadays and would send money over the internet to some random woman for no reason at all and nothing in return. Just to get noticed or maybe an acknowledgement.

This is your typical run-on-the-mill prostitute encounter with your average prostitute clientele.

You really think MY experience, despite all its drawbacks, is worse off?

If it helps the guys here rationalize that my position is worse off and make them feel better, I'll just concede and say, "Yeah bro, it sucks, I'm suffering over here, what a shitty life. I wish I was paying for chicken instead."

Success is relative to where you are in your life right now. When more people idolize porn stars as successful, the bar is set very low indeed.

In the land of the blind, the one-eyed man is king.

Maybe because I appreciate the uniqueness and excitement of this line of work?

How many jobs are out there where a lot of people will go, "Damn, that must be fun?"

Not "that pays well" or "that's a stable career with growth prospects," but "that's fun?"

Very few jobs fit the bill. Doctor, lawyer, accountant, engineer, retail, corporate, how many jobs out there have a legitimate "fun" component to them?

Maybe pro athletes and artists can claim that.
Male porn stars, possibly.

Like someone said earlier, in the land of the blind, the one-eyed man is king.

In the land of incels and beta males, the male porn star is king.

I'm not saying people should respect me or idolize me, they can if they want, but I certainly don't expect them to.

They just know I'm doing something they can never dream of doing, and they want to live out their fantasies vicariously through me, an average-looking Chinese born-and-bred Malaysian guy who somehow found himself a career in having sex with beautiful women in the US of A.

I really don't understand some people here who are dying to rationalize having sex with beautiful women as something bad, or something that's overall a negative.

That's a bit of a hard sell.

These are the same group of people who, if I told them I won the lottery, their immediate response will be:

"Have fun paying 40% to the taxman."
"Hah. Now you will never know who your true friends are."
"Did you know 33% of lottery winners end up bankrupt?"

They're already committed to engaging in bad faith from the start, they long ago already made up their minds, and no matter what transpired in the discussion they'll spin it into something negative.

It's impossible to logically satisfy these people because they will always have something negative up their sleeves to say.

Made money? "He must be empty inside."

Slept with hot women? "Empty also."

Got PR/citizenship in US? "Haha, enjoy the mass shootings!"

Got a new car? "Must be leased"

If like this, talk for what?

I just concede, you win liao lor. 😂

It is set really low when you consider porn star a profession. Get out of here with all this woke shit.

Is there a difference of sexual satisfaction when sex with different woman? Ask this to him please... Because lubang still sama

Oh no, I do agree with you.

I always say, imagine having to do ANYTHING for 40 hours a week, year in and year out. Even if it's something fun like eating, travelling, watching movies, playing video games, having sex, etc.

You're bound to tap out sooner or later.

I understand that, and that's why I also diversify into other things (specifically my SaaS business).

Because I understand, no matter how "fun" your job is, the fact that you "have to" do it is going to sonner or later make it not fun.

I can't retire just yet, but I've already created a situation for myself where I'm no longer principally reliant on porn income for my bread and butter (allowing me to reject shitty deals), can take time off anytime I want, often 1-2 weeks at a time without asking anyone for permission, work relatively little compared to most corporate employees, work from anywhere in the world, wake up at 1pm daily, go grocery shopping on Tuesday afternoon, etc., and still make enough to save, spend, and invest.

My point is don't bother fusing fun and work. Fool's errand.

Leverage tech and your tech skills to minimize your work hours and hopefully build some equity for yourself through your active labor that you can hopefully sell for a fat profit at a later date.

Teach us. So we can bang bang harder and longer without fail.

alvin pls tfk me .. it will be a dream cum true

he touch ur tulur u will also feel proud

Man... You're spitting pure facts right here.

Put it better than I could, so eloquently and succinctly.

Most people are pure mercenaries...

The end justifies the means for them.

Even if it takes eating shit or selling their own mother to make riches, they'll gladly do it.

To them work is invariably unpleasant, and to even factor in higher ideals like passion or purpose into one's work is stupid or crazy.

To me, the journey is extremely important, the invisible daily grind must have meaning to me, I want to feel alive doing what I do, so fail or succeed I'm already winning in my own book.

I don't want to be some kind of hack who just sells out to the highest bidder doing some bullshit work that I don't give a shit about... What a hollow existence that is.

Even if I'm paid a lot, it's still a meaningless miserable life.

You clearly grasp this, but the vast majority of this forum doesn't.

They'll gladly choose the corporate life option in your example.

To them, safer and faster money is happiness. Period.

You're like almost running out of breath trying to explain it to the other fellow, but he just doesn't get it.

Not even asking him to agree with it, that's a tall order, just asking to wrap his head around the idea that there are people who prioritize not just the destination, but the journey, not just the goal, but the process.

Yeah. I hate how I also fall into that mental trap even though I know it is stupid.

I like my job , but it pays shit, so I feel like less of a man because of it.

Yup, I should have known better... Asian societies.

I can understand if it's your wife or parents pressuring you to go for money at all costs, they don't have to do anything and will reap all the benefits so of course they want you to earn the maximum income, but why would guys subject themselves to this so willingly?

Of course how you get that many zeros matter, because some methods just aren't worth it.

People only look at the income, they never look into the unpleasantness or intensity that go into earning that income...

Seriously, some things are just not worth it. Especially if it makes you miserable like hell.

Never confuse standard of living with quality of life.

No shit money is important, you don't think I thought of it, genius?

But let's see you dipshits make an argument of money being more important than mental health or personal happiness.

"But money = happiness"

Free money maybe. Earned money, it depends.

My family is supportive.

It mostly comes from myself.

alvin, do you ever just feel bored when having sex?

asking cuz I feel like I actually don't enjoy sex as much as I thought I would.

Thought it was just my ex-gf that was boring so I got a 10/10 hooker just to experience what good sex is supposed to feel like, but nope, still kinda boring. I felt myself spacing out while receiving one of the best blowjobs in my life.