https://www.ourbetterworld.org/series/menta...E&type=resource

anyone got medical knowledge or work in related medical industry that what situation u will categories into that 29.2 %

If you visit rumah org tua.

Majority like 60 % got mental problem

It's higher than that. Some don't even know it themselves..

Almost everyone I know have some mental illness.

This is 2019 news, without considering the pandemic effect. I wonder if the expection on 2020 is true/probably even worse.

I have mental illness. I got anxiety that stem from me overthinking things. And if i stuck at that one issue….habis ! My brain jam stuck at it. Cant think of solutoion but think of the problem only

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This post has been edited by c64: Apr 23 2022, 11:52 PM

no worries, u have a lot companion here.

Same here. I will keep think and feel sad until i fall asleep

do a dass test, if you have at least mild score on anxiety/depression/stress, then you can be considered as having mental illness.
but most of the time, if your assessment is just giving mild result, government health provider will not proceed with action. there are plenty of people that having severe mental illness need to be taken care first.

sometime this is somewhat true.
lesser observed/impaired brain function are likely to cause mental problem.

This issue is made worse by typical chinamen/asian mentality that if you're not successful/cant work in corporate/cant handle stress then you're just lazy or cannot pressure.

Anyone has solution? Thinking of going to psychiatric

Go for it, even private specialist is not that "crazy expensive". You don't have to wait until complete breakdown.
You can do multi things at the same time, minor workout, get really good at hobbies.

With current definition of mental illness, 50% of the population has it.
Social media is the major cause of the surge.

Short term solution: go to psychiatric, get meds.

Long term solution: change your lifestyle. Avoid fast food and oily stuffs. Eat more fruits and veges, exercise more.

Nowadays everything is consider mental illness. Last time those stuff is just normal that's y the figure increase

Its basically, 1 out of 4 people have mental problems.

Gov hospital can go psychiatry also right?

Already doing this mate. Everyday week 3 day run 3 to 5k, weekend cycle 100k, i dont eat anything that comes out of a machine except for bacon coz its damn nice. I dont eat oily or fried food except for maybe 4 time a month.

Breakfast usually egg sandwich, lunch chicken rice etc and night most of the day are oats with milk and berries

Trust me food is not the issue or contributing issue

Food is . Check out this and google this


Check this hacks too.


Personally believe a "right" belief help a lot. Ensure it doesn't suck your energy and money as many fake one. Same goes to the professional doctors.

So far, personally noticed all beliefs will teach all the hacks above.

One of the top lawyer in HK also got cheated. Terrible.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mary_Jean_Reimer

Visit church to church, temple to temple, mosque to mosque. It might take a while until u found suitable for you.

Me mostly study online and double verify what is right and wrong from others that is better than you. It's 100% free.

https://christianity.stackexchange.com/

https://buddhism.stackexchange.com/

https://islam.stackexchange.com/

From the senior answer base on their ranking, you may know the quality of the answer.



It's not an easy task to take you to better life and gotta work hard for it.

Work for better life with wisdom. Tons of money but living with everyday more severe mental illness still pointless.

This post has been edited by littlestar777: Apr 24 2022, 02:13 PM

Yes, KL hospital has one, I didnt follow through with the gov though (cant comment), just went to UMSC.

I'd bet the actual figure is a couple times higher than that at least
- Parents don't/refuse to recognize their child is struggling with mental health, and do not want to try understand it even worse when they don't realize they are the root of the problem/the shame of having their child known to have mental illness

- Also parents refuse to acknowledge the existence of 'mental illness'. They though mental illness is like the ones got locked in mental asylum who have lost their sanity, at the same time though mental illness like depression is easily curable like flu

- Parents thinking that young adults don't deserve to say they have mental illness like depression unless they're the elites kind who always worry about competition and stuff

This post has been edited by Achilles Yong: Apr 24 2022, 07:33 PM

dass link.

https://www.healthfocuspsychology.com.au/tools/dass-42/

Frens, check out this video?

Thanks folks. By 2030, we will have 70% to 80% of people having this issue base on the trend.

Me thinking what product can sell here.

Great info. Thanks

you have to understand the nature of the mind. Each mind, reprograms the next mind. So if you have an initial wrong or stressful response to an event, the mind will tend to respond similarly to future similar event (reinforcement).

That is to say, whenever you encounter a similar situation, the mind thinks in a established pattern, rather automatically, with the conscious mind exerts little control over the initial response. Your thinking has become a HABIT.

Medicines offer a quick temporary fix , but the underlying subconscious mind needs a bit of right thinking, to slowly decondition the mind, to think and behave differently.

But many people don't have patience, they prefer quick fix, not understanding the so called mental problem has its root in long term conditioning of the mind, which may need some time to
decondition it.

Good luck bro

This post has been edited by Chrono-Trigger: Apr 24 2022, 11:21 PM

Agreed. Base on this trend, we will have 70% to 80% people having this issue in 2030

A quick fix like u said is a good biz because people just like it. Normally I just get blasted when I trying to tell more about it or people just ignore it.

Hopefully we r not filled with drug abuse, alcohol, biycle lajak, speeding car, those illegal stuff to have temporary relief

Since 2015, I realise this issue suddenly become more n more in my surrounding

This post has been edited by littlestar777: Apr 24 2022, 11:25 PM

Not easy to live with people with severe mental illnsss

This post has been edited by Chrono-Trigger: Apr 24 2022, 11:38 PM

Both society n gov gonna play the role to counter it.

Society gonna have awareness. Know is really right or wrong.

For gov, why drugs exist here n there in this decade btw ? Before ah jib time was far better controlled.

Many high quality leader leaving the country too. Like many other said, lu tak suka migrate lah . Poor thing is low quality folk stays, high quality folk really migrated.

just look at the road and how people drive / ride

there ady full of crazy and mental people

Your pictorial left out sex which is a great producer of happiness chemicals. So prudish!

here sikit sikit mental illness.
imagine living in SG, SK, Japan lah.
I reckon they have higher mental tolerance until they breakdown.

se7en Empire23 please give me temp sus , but in exchange please give the fellow a permanent sus , this guy keep tag and reply me most of the time, even I didn't tag him , some crazy guy with mental illness

This post has been edited by TianJian: Apr 25 2022, 08:43 AM

Actually I feel this way as well.

People are driving extremely slow these days.

And they do not seem to respond when I honk them. Maybe they understand that they are the ones at fault but still cannot control themselves.

I dunno. Do you feel that way?

Food does contribute to your mental health. You are readjusting and it will take some time to fix it. Plus, some times too much physical activity will stress you even more. You don't need to go all out during exercise. Just do it leisurely around 30-40 minutes each time is enough.

Try talking to a Psychologist first and get it assessed. If psychologist diagnosed that you need medication, they will then refer to a psychiatrist.

this is interesting. i feel the totally opposite.

i assume you from a more rural state,
in selangor , people drive / ride like mad racer.
definitely more people is speeding unnecessary on the road.

almost all of them cut lane with no signal, some cutting the lane last minute when other vehicle is very close to them.
so you will feel very unsafe with these driver / rider on the road , this is also the main reason i get a driving/riding video recorder.

most people show lese compassion and have less patient when on the road
and they simply do not care the other people that using the road.
this society is getting more sick by the day .

i did meet a few that drive extremely slow, but will honk depend which lane they hogging.
if at the most right lane then yes confirm honk.
no response is either they dono some one honk them , or they just pretend did not hear you honk them.

Actually I am at the Taman Desa area.

I feel generally ppl are driving real slow nowadays. And this kind of slow is actually pretty inconsiderate. Even when driving at the Federal highway, ppl are just hogging the mid and even the right lane. I can understand the jam right now caused by ppl driving too slow.

For me, I really dunno why ppl are driving so slow. It's as if they owned the roads. The slowness is even a cyclist could cycle faster then ppl driving nowadays .

Like you said. Most likely they pretend not to hear but then to me it's a mental issue. I mean if you.are hogging the road taking your own sweat time to drive, I really dunno what to say.

Of coz motorcyclist driving in the opposite direction in a 1 way road etc. Motor cyclist also just moving very slow nowadays in a jam. This is a problem because you have to anticipate which direction the motorcyclist is planning to cut or why they are just tailgating your car when there is a jam.

For me I used to think when motorcyclist move fast, it's an issue but then I would not call those ppl mentally ill as I am used to it.

But now the issue is with ppl driving too slow. Of coz it's not as dangerous but slow driving causes accidents as well and is really inconsiderate and irritating.

ourbetterworld
ok that sounds reliable

now you mention , i did notice some drive at 80 at highway or slower
but i think that is the supposed speed limit, not sure.

but this is ok for me since most of them at either the most left or mid lane
some time when i dont feel like going fast , i will just tailgate one of these vehicle at mid lane

i use to go fast for most of the time, due to rushing to work
but after experience go slow on the road, i notice i save more on fuel, and much more relax experience.
just need to readjust the time i start from my place, slightly earlier a bit from previous.

also try take some deep breath when you feel like annoyed by these slow cucumber, or before you start driving, this helps me a lot.

This post has been edited by sammm33: Apr 25 2022, 06:15 PM

Narcissistic personality disorder — one of several types of personality disorders — is a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others.

The main reason of mental health sickness is wrong thinking pattern. Medication can control the sickness symptoms, but to solve it permanently, a person need to correct their thinking pattern. Spiritual teaching in Buddhism can rectify this.

job can be stressful.

Actually driving slow uses more fuel

I dunno. I was in Singapore for a few years. This really slow type of driving is something I only experienced recently. Granted road is narrow, but like I said, even a cyclist moves faster then the cars. I seriously think it's like what you said selfishness etc.

I do not think narcissism is a mental disorder but a personality one.

workplace have this type of people.

they will act pity to get close to you, will do anything to get close to their target.

but after get to know each other, you will will notice this person seeks nothing but attention and demand respect from others.

will think nothing but for them self only , very selfish and totally lack of empathy for others.
always complain about others all the time , but think self is a perfect human being, and never have an ounce of self awareness that the cause is them self.

when some one tegur them, they will pretend they understand but after awhile will repeat the same bs again.

my advice is , if you have the unfortunate to meet one of these "special people" , avoid them like a plague.
you can try advice them , but for my case, non of my or others advice reach this person, but yet they will keep coming up with excuse and demand more attention / sympathy from others.

me and other colleagues are too kind to share our kindness but fact proven this TOTAL waste of time.
these mental people , who high chance is indeed a person with narcissistic personality disorder, need special advice from professional people , not your kindness or advice from amateur. And depend on condition , most likely need to be on meds.

This post has been edited by sammm33: Apr 26 2022, 03:56 AM

my understanding is when drive/ride slow , around 80 - 90 kmh, improve fuel consumption.
this is why taxi driver drove around this speed range.
this speed proven to have better fuel consumption.

can share what do you mean by "slow uses more fuel" , just incase your definition of slow drive is a different kind of speed.

personally see way too many cases where symptoms is there for their entire life, and need to continue on meds.

while these group of people have my sympathy, i doubt mental sickness can be cure permanently. there is no cure.
attempt to heal them via spiritually is best to be use as side method, main method still is psychotherapy + meds.

again, bear in mind these are just treatment , not cure.

so best case scenario is , lesser symptoms, but need to be on meds.
or
lesser symptoms , not on meds, but from time to time will go wild again.

This post has been edited by sammm33: Apr 26 2022, 04:13 AM

This statement i support. The effects are not well documented enough sine they r new.

I already implied earlier,
the slow is not 80-90 KMH

It's so slow even cyclist are faster then those cars.

And I have experienced in the federal highway.

Those cars are so slow that if you lose concentration just for a bit, you will bang them.

80-90 KHM is not considered slow for me. I think those cars drive 40-50 in the Federal Highway.

I

Maybe they are not really suffering from actual "mental" sickness but they have behavoir issues.

Meds will definitely not cure your behavoir issues.

You have not seen someone who has actual NPDs

Those people can just stab you from behind and you dun even know why they did that.

Actually go and youtube NPD, its much more complicated then you think.

Go and study the terms gaslighting and flying monkeys

This post has been edited by BrookLes: Apr 26 2022, 12:37 PM

Most common is depression.

I think you are just used to the pace in Singapore.

For example, in Singapore, the escalators move faster than the escalators in Malaysia. So when u return and use the escalator in Malaysia, u will feel that it is extremely slow.

Most if not all the people, will have some 'error' in their thinking pattern. A lot of times human is stuck at thinking what has already happened in the past, or worrying what's going to happen in the future. This creates a lot of negative emotions, such as anger, disappointment, unsatisfaction, worry, fear in their mind. Some people can 'release' this from their mind, but some are unable to and therefore, create a long term stress on their body and mind and cause mental health problem.

While medication is good at controlling the symptoms, it's much better for mental patients to pursue spiritual thinking because this is the place where they can rectify their thinking pattern.

If only you actually read my posts.

Unless ppl can suddenly slow down to cycling speeds or 30-40kmh at 3pm in Federal highway.

Guess human will not handle this (at most) till AI level 7 fully mature.

We are at level 4-5 in term of maturity

No worry, quantum AI is coming soon for Level 7 AI. We will be managed by AI. Let's AI Cop goes n catch the bicycle lajak or over dose of alcohol and give them a lesson.



This post has been edited by littlestar777: Apr 26 2022, 12:44 PM

I feel people drive more selfish these days. A lot more selfish and asshole attitude than pre-covid.

Fast/slow I feel about the same. I doubt Malaysians actually feel they are at fault when behind the wheel. We are very fond of blaming everything else except ownself.

Yeah you are on the dot. Post covid it seems that ppl behavior are very strange.

In 2015 i felt things really get wrong so i google loh, then i found this. This report from KKM 2015 . In KL we are already hitting 39.8 %



i.e.

1. people just tailgate in max speed due to release tension, this is what he said lah
2. Work to death at office. Every day speeding
3. Still working with cancer stage 3-4. He/She said is ok. With this level of stress, percentage of survival < 10%. Can bring title, fame or money afterlife ma?

They can behave 100% normally at work. Only weekend or after work the truth face will come out

They have all of the below in common

1. Heavy family expenses dependencies. Lifestyle Creep or craving or spending something they dont really need or un affordable. when they get jobless, they will get really deep shit
2. Urge n Stress to get promotion or more money
3. Very very Kiasu

sorry folks, me quite straight forward guy

This post has been edited by littlestar777: Apr 26 2022, 01:42 PM

Pm you.

Certain things cannot say openly.

I m actually... wanna write to certain authority like Church, temple, mosque for education purpose. I wish when reach their hand, is one time shot kill all the birds or content is in perfection.

Need to know what can say and cannot say.. feel free to feedback.

Just training here.. no worries. Sorry folks, really beh tahan these 3-4 years

This post has been edited by littlestar777: Apr 26 2022, 01:57 PM

When i was young right after getting car license, i also speed like mad. I also behave very badly.

I found something is wrong in me. I keep finding solution. I heard sutra can help so i did watch journey to the west over and over again, lingering temple to temple look for solution.


With the help of internet and some help from religion senior folks after 10 years. Finally i able to decode and understand a bit . It's been very useful to cure most of my sickness.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nzENa5IWTww

Bible, Sutra and Quran more or less interpreting the similar message.

No wonder it's so hard to decode.




This post has been edited by littlestar777: Apr 26 2022, 03:00 PM

I have no interest in going too deep and detail into these cuz I ain't expert and im not acting like I'm one.

I meet these people in real life, be it npds, or people that is terrible at gaslighting, but still doing it, or disgusting people that you call flying monkey. I know cuz they match all the symptoms when read about it, just to justify their doings, and make some sense out of these nonsense.

My point is, mental and crazy people are everywhere, might even be some one that sleep beside you. They are all around us.

Worst is after covid just bring us more of these people, great.

I don't care these are true sickness or just pure behaviour, the fact that encountering them dry up my kindness and sympathy to these "special people", and now I choose to stay away from these people like a plague.

Every treat comes with opportunities. Like U can check out what biz or product can sell since base on the trend, it's going up. Product like doc2us. There will be always a positive side of this.

I just know some already taking benefits like selling bicycle lajak spare parts, more online gambling, drugs, scam, alcohol abuse, fake temple cause people easily cheated while their mental state is poor and wanna have a quick fix/solution.

This post has been edited by littlestar777: Apr 26 2022, 09:18 PM

Just now I just go to 99 speed mart to buy a drink.

I bought a bottled drink. Ask the cashier to open for me. Said cannot do that.

5 years ago, I am pretty sure at least the cashier will help me.

Now you wonder why mental illness is on the rise

Kan Cheong n stress now u know. If u go HK and ask the same thing i guess u will get screwed upside down.

This is 15 years back. We're not at this stage yet, Coming soon if nothing being done.

Well, till now i still dun understand what do they get being kiasu like this?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EsYRQkmVifg&t=38s

When i stepped their land 2 years back. I felt my whole body dizzy like kena covid. Not sure why my friend feels so syok there.

This post has been edited by littlestar777: Apr 26 2022, 09:31 PM

Iirc didn't the Brits coin the term amok after Malay?

Everyone have some form of mental health issue..
Most is due to our Asian heritage of rotan, scolding, and goading.. heck we make fun and normalise beating our kids.

emm... if u go NY, u will face same shit
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SfsWF6ScPc0

Main cause is we have over population issue in major cities. None of the world leader able to solve this.

Sigh, next month thinking escape to langkawi and stay for months

This post has been edited by littlestar777: Apr 26 2022, 09:37 PM

The middle finger guys are very real.
Can actually see they have a few sparks loose and have a tick.

Most won't just implode and cause violence and chaos.
Those that asking for it will just go and hit people like autistic idiots.

KL also a lot of nutjobs running around shirtless and shoeless.

Good luck in Langkawi hope u don't see rohingya running amok

This post has been edited by VinluV: Apr 26 2022, 09:39 PM

Even 95% of the forummer got mental issues that cannot be cured.

U seek solemn here, they ask u die first..

If u see some of my replied, I mentioned this is a training.

Its quite a good practice ground to learn patience here.

I faced far worse situation than here n I did not able to cope it so need training

All these really mind blowing figure!

Becareful when trolling, some guide over here. If they get a lawyer n proof is you causing the mental illness. Its quite pretty screwed.

Check out Msia Act Law A 1414 about phyco abuse.

https://www.trustedmalaysia.com/mental-heal...stics-malaysia/

If ur company mistreat you, stand up and report to IR.
https://www.mp.gov.my/en/?option=com_weblin...36&lang=English

Enough of these really!

Now only got complete report. M been complaining to surrounding friends, HR since 2016 with piece of info here n there but nobody cares

This post has been edited by littlestar777: Apr 27 2022, 01:05 AM

In deed but becareful folks. Each comment counts

According to MCMC, those who
incited the 16-year-old girl in Sarawak
to commit suicide based on the poll on
her Instagram, may be liable under
Section 305 of the Penal Code, which
states that it is wrong to incite
individuals aged below 18 to commit
suicide.