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kitsunegeisha
post Apr 21 2022, 04:13 PM

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she try to be nice..but does not know the limit or boundary.
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post Apr 21 2022, 04:22 PM

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I think you can PM Laguna and introduce this girl to Laguna.
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post Apr 21 2022, 11:21 PM

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Maybe can try this. Every time she loud your name, say to her “Im Sorry. But Excuse me.” Then put up earphone pretend nothing. Of course keep an eye if your bosses need your attention

If she touchy touchy, say the same to thing and with blank expression on your face. Repeat again same words at the same time shrug off her hand.
And walk away .

Or maybe pretend talk to other colleagues about work matters

Or pretend talk on phones with your wife then walk away .

Say nothing more except the machine-like response “IM SORRY. BUT EXCISE ME ”.

And yes, this would test your patience across time until you finally clear of this mess.

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zach69
post Apr 24 2022, 10:52 PM

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QUOTE(Sasuke95 @ Apr 15 2022, 09:22 PM)
Don't really make sense if she's hot, i for sure don't mind. There's 1 girl raised her voice when talking to me to make sure the whole office knows, she is marking me as hers by doing so and don't want others to interfere, we get to bed not long after. But if she's not as hot, i wouldn't talk to her again the moment she pull something like raised voice volume. I don't want misunderstand from passer by
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U r the reason guys get into sexual harassment cases, it's only okay if you are good looking
Sasuke95
post Apr 25 2022, 03:44 PM

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QUOTE(zach69 @ Apr 24 2022, 10:52 PM)
U r the reason guys get into sexual harassment cases, it's only okay if you are good looking
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Did u even read what's the situation in this thread? The thread starter is getting sexually harassed by his female colleague. My reply is only saying if that female colleague is hot enough, i will not mind the "harassment".

Male side is not the one started the harassment in this thread.

It's not harassment when both parties consented the act.
Harassment case is due to 1 of the parties are not consented and not comfortable with the action of the other party.
ze2
post May 18 2022, 09:38 PM

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Put pic of your wife or family on your desk. Tell her you love them/her and will not consider new relationship.
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post May 24 2022, 03:48 PM

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I give them cold shoulder. Ignore terus.
mezanny
post May 24 2022, 04:32 PM

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Sound very unusual.

I think you should just ignore her.
How bad can it get ? The most is one day you're alone with her, then she suddenly grab your balls. You can still defend yourself, right ?
Unless she is too strong for you.
Don't get me wrong, I am not saying it is right if she try to rape you or something.
Of course I am against this, sexual harassment in office is mentally abusive even for men alike.
But just a silly tap on the shoulder, calling your name loud, tapping on the wall, does not constitute sexual harassment.
Maybe she is just plain weird.
So unless she watsapp some dirty jokes, she touch your crouch or your butt, she say she want to rape you or molest you, you have nothing to worry about. She hasn't even asked you out on a date, for goodness sakes.
Or asked you to give her a lift back home.

I think the more you show u r afraid, the more she will come to kacau you.
In my office there was one divorced lady who seem to be interested, she keep saying she is interested in guys who are same race as I am, as her ex husband is similar. She is from another race n religion. She seem very friendly.

But I just act myself, and be friendly to her. I wasn't even afraid, when she came over and ate lunch at my table in cafeteria while I was sitting alone eating. In fact I enjoyed her company and listen to her tales of her past experiences.

After that, we just became friends, then she left the co. It was just that.

TS, if you are really married, you won't have all this phobias. Ok ?

I think u shld be even more afraid if there is a girl who come over seductively and you want it badly because she is hot really hot. That is something you should fear more than a lady who come over and disturb you and you think she is harrasing you sexually, and you are afraid that you will fall in love with her ??? won't happen, right ?

So Just ignore her. Unless she grab you in the balls or she strip naked in front of you and try to kiss you. Then better report.

This post has been edited by mezanny: May 24 2022, 04:36 PM
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post May 24 2022, 04:36 PM

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Stop being a nice guy maybe?

Call you do stuff can reject one bro.
mezanny
post May 24 2022, 04:39 PM

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QUOTE(ze2 @ May 18 2022, 09:38 PM)
Put pic of your wife or family on your desk. Tell her you love them/her and will not consider new relationship.
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I remember got one single guy in my previous office was trying to fend off this aunty.

So he put a frame pic of this girl, on his office desk to claim that this is his gf.

Turns out we saw her picture cutting somewhere in the internet, an advertisement.

hahahaha, caught him red handed.

 

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