'Ok, to give you his background, He is sedentary person. Not really into exercise, like to eat good food. When I calculate his BMI, he is overweight. Asked him to move his ass but the message gone to deaf ear. Like I said, ignorance close to lazy. I even have to keep reminding him to groom himself.'

Overweight tends to lead to low libido and stamina. From what you have shared, I don't see there's any issue with you. There's no need to go for any reconstruction surgery.

If your husband heart is still there, a lil bit changes will not affect him. Vice versa, if the heart is not there, how you modify also no use.