U should have more kids if u can afford it. Money is always the issues when having more kids. But if u r not having money issues. Why not ?

U will love all ur kids equally. Trust me.

More kids is merrier especially during festive season and holidays.

Do u take count of ur daughter feeling ? She needs someone to play with. To converse and interact. Both my sons is 2 years apart. They're inseparable but still fight occasionally.

Then i had my 3rd baby with 5 years gap from my 2nd son. So they treat her like princess. But now she occasionally fight with them too although she love her brothers.

So conclusion is.. Another kid won't hurt u. But talk it nicely with ur wife and tell her how it makes u upset she's using a baby to negotiate ur working condition.