Used to have maid last time many years ago. No good feedback. Just know that end up my house have to install cctv and install lock on all the cabinets. Yet still things in house went missing.

I also just got a nanny same price and 1-to-1. But less hour. Start next month. Hopefully all goes well. I’m new mom also. So fully understand ur feeling. Yeah VERY AGREE TO NOT comment about nanny’s method of taking care of baby. Didnt know aunty so sensitive nowadays, accidentally commented on my MIL (only on baby sleeping position) after coming back from CC. Now our relationship changed 180deg d.

Need to adjust own mindset, don’t be monster parent. As long as kid can eat sleep grow during infant and toddler stage and don’t cause u any trouble, good enough. Even if with maid, hubby, own mom, daycare or whoever also same. Don’t break good relationship coz of small issues. Ur kid won’t remember/appreciate that u once so overly-cared for him/her until ur relationship with others is broken. U can care later after fetching ur kid home.