First pregnancy 36
2nd pregnancy 41

Money is important whne you start a family.

Career need to take a back seat if u wanna put family first, which I highly encourage cos I thoroughly enjoyed my time with my babies. I know if I do not spend the time with them whne younger they will not be close to me when older, so whne I retire, I will not have any meaningful conversation with them, I learnt this because my mom nv spent time being a friend or having a good communication with all of us so now, all of us dont really talk to her or tell her anything major that's happening in our lives.