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christ14
post Feb 20 2022, 11:20 PM

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QUOTE(Takudan @ Jan 27 2022, 03:37 AM)

To me, finding someone means to find the other half who:
- can put up with your bullshit
- you can put up with their bullshit
- is good enough for you
- you're good enough for them

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i just resonated with this... and it seems like all 4 need to click. just had 2 shot off recently
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post Feb 22 2022, 12:32 AM

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QUOTE(Takudan @ Feb 21 2022, 09:07 PM)
Unfortunately we cannot control how others think of us, but I think you can better your chances by working on yourself:
- fix your own bullshit. It can be your temper, bad habit or whatever it's been bugging yourself but you were too lazy to do something about.
- fix your expectations... by lowering it to a more realistic level, if applicable. For example, a girl with flawless face without any makeup on is extremely rare, if at all! Most ladies I know in my life has something on their face lol, all it takes is one hot day outdoors, or some stressful days at work, or hormonal changes. I just find that the typical beauties you see a lot on socmeds, scam dating profiles, porn, whatever else out there in the public, they are very much beautified to an unrealistic standard. If anything, I find ladies who can make stupid/ugly faces much more genuine and fun to be with.
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yeah man cheers

to me its bugging the SO, and need to talk about it often. breaking point it was

i dont have any expectations per se like what you said. looks isnt everything really, but agree on the points notworthy.gif

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