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AshenOne
post Feb 6 2022, 01:09 PM

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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Feb 6 2022, 02:04 AM)
The only person that disqualifies you, is yourself. If that is what you believe, that is what you will project to others.

I happen to know some players in their 50s, they look like kopitiam unkers, but they pull in college age girls. They don't even need to flaunt wealth to do it, they aren't really rich to begin with. They just know how to play the game.

So stop making excuses for yourself la.
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That is very interesting, do you know what method the uncles are using, the gap between uncles and college girls seem outrageous to me, I cannot imagine what else besides wealth that is pulling them in, maybe I am too narrow minded I will have to admit this here first, but please educate me. I do not have ego despite I am in late 20s approaching 30, I am willing to learn anything.
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post Feb 6 2022, 02:39 PM

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dont u know that women like older financially stable men?


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QUOTE(AshenOne @ Feb 6 2022, 01:09 PM)
That is very interesting, do you know what method the uncles are using, the gap between uncles and college girls seem outrageous to me, I cannot imagine what else besides wealth that is pulling them in, maybe I am too narrow minded I will have to admit this here first, but please educate me. I do not have ego despite I am in late 20s approaching 30, I am willing to learn anything.
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Fundamentally, its the difference between

"I know how to have fun, you look like you want some fun, come join me"

vs

"Am I attractive enough for you?"

If you can figure out the difference, you will get your answer
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post Feb 6 2022, 03:12 PM

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There is no expiry. U just pray find someone that tolerate you and u tolerate her. If one side cannot give in...you will get into the biggest shit in your life
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post Feb 6 2022, 03:40 PM

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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Feb 6 2022, 03:10 PM)
Fundamentally, its the difference between

"I know how to have fun, you look like you want some fun, come join me"

vs

"Am I attractive enough for you?"

If you can figure out the difference, you will get your answer
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Thanks hawk, now I understand after you put it out so clearly.
One attracts by already having interesting things going on in your side and naturally pulls the others towards you, when I see people having fun, I will feel like joining too and not miss out.

Conversely the other mindset seeks approval and seeks to impress, the focus is on the opposite gender but not yourself. This path will have extra resistance and feels forced at times compared to the natural former option.

But do you have any examples of how to make it work? Does bringing her to experience golf, try the good foods, visit pet cafes, counts? Or does it have to be something more special than that?
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post Feb 6 2022, 08:45 PM

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QUOTE(Blofeld @ Feb 6 2022, 02:39 PM)
dont u know that women like older financially stable men?
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Ok question, what do you guys think of as financially stable?

QUOTE(silverhawk @ Feb 6 2022, 03:10 PM)
Fundamentally, its the difference between

"I know how to have fun, you look like you want some fun, come join me"

vs

"Am I attractive enough for you?"

If you can figure out the difference, you will get your answer
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Ok that's a very good point hawk, I'll think about that. Not sure if I know how to have fun though...
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post Feb 6 2022, 08:53 PM

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QUOTE(flying_manatee @ Jan 27 2022, 02:04 AM)
So I'm trying to date this girl I really like, but no guarantees it will work out of course.

As a guy, what age do you think I should just give up / settle for whichever girl will take me? I'll be 35 this year come my birthday. So wondering is there a hard expiry date for guys or not.
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You got lui anot?

Got lui if you retired at 60 also girl girl think u 35 only
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post Feb 6 2022, 09:34 PM

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QUOTE(InitialB @ Feb 6 2022, 08:53 PM)
You got lui anot?

Got lui if you retired at 60 also girl girl think u 35 only
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Ok the thing here is I have no idea what is the definition of got lui
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QUOTE(AshenOne @ Feb 6 2022, 03:40 PM)
Thanks hawk, now I understand after you put it out so clearly.
One attracts by already having interesting things going on in your side and naturally pulls the others towards you, when I see people having fun, I will feel like joining too and not miss out.

Conversely the other mindset seeks approval and seeks to impress, the focus is on the opposite gender but not yourself. This path will have extra resistance and feels forced at times compared to the natural former option.

But do you have any examples of how to make it work? Does bringing her to experience golf, try the good foods, visit pet cafes, counts? Or does it have to be something more special than that?
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Examples will just misguide you, even here you got about 90% of the meaning, but still lacking another 10% but you're close. The only thing I can say to you is go out and try. You will fail many many many times, but its part of the process. You'll never learn to ride a bike unless you've fallen a few times right? Same thing.


QUOTE(flying_manatee @ Feb 6 2022, 08:45 PM)
Ok that's a very good point hawk, I'll think about that. Not sure if I know how to have fun though...
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Then its time to go find some fun. Keep in mind everyone's definition of fun is different, just find yours and look for like minded people. The rest falls into place nicely.
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post Feb 7 2022, 07:45 AM

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If u are poor, u expire around age 35-38 (depending on your look and grooming)

If u are rich, there are no expiry date as there are many women that will accept a partner 20-30 years their senior if he is rich
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QUOTE(AshenOne @ Feb 6 2022, 03:40 PM)
Thanks hawk, now I understand after you put it out so clearly.
One attracts by already having interesting things going on in your side and naturally pulls the others towards you, when I see people having fun, I will feel like joining too and not miss out.

Conversely the other mindset seeks approval and seeks to impress, the focus is on the opposite gender but not yourself. This path will have extra resistance and feels forced at times compared to the natural former option.

But do you have any examples of how to make it work? Does bringing her to experience golf, try the good foods, visit pet cafes, counts? Or does it have to be something more special than that?
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Live your life to the fullest as the single first. Eat around & try out new dishes at different locations, travel around locally or oversea - see how ppl do thing differently, engage with the hobbies - if hiking, try different locations & meet different ppl. Spend the necessary money in the exchange of the life experiences. Get involves with daily errant - dealing with the government agencies, etc. All these will add to your life experiences. When the time come, you shall able to share your life experiences naturally.

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post Feb 7 2022, 08:18 AM

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No limit to age.
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post Feb 7 2022, 10:47 AM

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QUOTE(michaelchang @ Feb 7 2022, 07:45 AM)
If u are poor, u expire around age 35-38 (depending on your look and grooming)

If u are rich, there are no expiry date as there are many women that will accept a partner 20-30 years their senior if he is rich
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at current age of women able to find as much wealth or more than any other men, the term "rich" has become really out of touch for ordinary people.
and for those who say men in their 50s able to score 20s women, maybe yes, but even in my mid-30s, 20s women already felt i am too out of touch to their generation of mindset, regardless of my financial capability.

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post Feb 7 2022, 11:11 AM

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QUOTE(gundamsp01 @ Feb 7 2022, 10:47 AM)
at current age of women able to find as much wealth or more than any other men, the term "rich" has become really out of touch for ordinary people.
and for those who say men in their 50s able to score 20s women, maybe yes, but even in my mid-30s, 20s women already felt i am too out of touch to their generation of mindset, regardless of my financial capability.
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There are different kind of rich.

1) Rich as in high pay + have own house/condo + has expensive car

2) Rich as in high income from business, FD, dividends + ability to buy a house/condo (cash) for spouse at anytime + have holiday home overseas + can buy car as gifts for gf.


1st type may have some problem getting younger women and 2nd type of rich have no problem with getting beautiful young women. tongue.gif


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QUOTE(gundamsp01 @ Feb 7 2022, 10:47 AM)
at current age of women able to find as much wealth or more than any other men, the term "rich" has become really out of touch for ordinary people.
and for those who say men in their 50s able to score 20s women, maybe yes, but even in my mid-30s, 20s women already felt i am too out of touch to their generation of mindset, regardless of my financial capability.
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assume 100k salary vs 500k salary, they're able to fine dine at same place. So what differs? Its personality, and most importantly mindset towards things and people.
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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Feb 7 2022, 02:06 PM)
assume 100k salary vs 500k salary, they're able to fine dine at same place. So what differs? Its personality, and most importantly mindset towards things and people.
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When u have that type of $$($500K salary), you will know the difference. You will not be lack of girls tongue.gif
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QUOTE(michaelchang @ Feb 7 2022, 07:21 PM)
When u have that type of $$($500K salary), you will know the difference. You will not be lack of girls  tongue.gif
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it depends on he pulls it off
if he frequently throws boat party and invite superficial girls come along, he will not attract any significant quality partner
again, average people like most of us will not understand.
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QUOTE(flying_manatee @ Jan 27 2022, 02:04 AM)
So I'm trying to date this girl I really like, but no guarantees it will work out of course.

As a guy, what age do you think I should just give up / settle for whichever girl will take me? I'll be 35 this year come my birthday. So wondering is there a hard expiry date for guys or not.
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there is no specific age.. listen to yourself.. everyone's "expiry age" is different.
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QUOTE(gundamsp01 @ Jan 27 2022, 10:40 PM)
funny isn't it?
when you younger and working your way up, people will tell you, no need to look for girls now, be rich and girls come to you.

when you got old and reach where you are, however you are still single, people will tell you, just settle with any girl you find nice to be with, feeling will come later once together.

Lol
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lol i concur with this
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post Feb 20 2022, 06:28 PM

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45-50 will be old. Because should u ever settle down and have kids later, he or she will be 18 while u will be in the late 60s or early 70s.

My late uncle married at 50 and before his first born enter college, he passed away due to an accident.

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