Each person gotta find their own yardstick to the retire; some ppl want frugal, some ppl want chubby/fat. Within each, frugal items might seem as chubby/fat for some, just like, spending on expensive oils to cook your own meals vs eating out everyday, which can lead to similar budgeting somehow. then, there's the travelling... and so on.
in the end, I got to be honest with myself the life I want to lead; choices to be made, and live with discipline
I think, the hardest things to do is to choose things that mattered - healthy choices (food, lifestyle), vanity (luxury items, new things, toys, gadgets, etc)
I understand the saying, you gotta be healthy to enjoy the wealth otherwise the money goes to foot hospital bills
Or, the saying that vanity items is for show off or instant gratification
right now, I like new things, new SLRs, new cars, new tech, new phones... if I try so hard convincing myself I don't want to buy those things then it defeats the purpose of enjoying things I like
then, the saying goes, live with fulfillment not just the materialistic part... and so on
then, come the biggest moment, I feel, is to be able to leave the comfort zone of quitting my day jobafter all, this is the biggest motivation to FI/RE... to me, I just want to stop working
the Financial part also, a lot of knowledge; personally, I'm inclined to be a buy and hold type
How to manage the funds? Trinity study etc. This one, I dunno yet because I'm just holding and holding and whenever got funds to invest, I go shopping for ETF's to buy
Summary of FIRE Principles from Books:
Reduce Expenses: Live well below your means to maximize your savings rate.
Invest Wisely: Invest in low-cost, broad-market index funds (e.g., \(S\&P 500\) or Total Stock Market).
The 4% Rule: Generally, you can retire when your investment portfolio is \(25\times\) your annual expenses.
Mindset Shift: Focus on financial freedom rather than consumerism.
This post has been edited by alexei: May 4 2026, 03:52 PM