QUOTE(Ramjade @ Oct 4 2025, 06:44 AM)
Can. Very important thing your spouse and family must be on the same page as you. That was my negotiable to my future wife. She must be able to live like B40. Know the struggles we have to make now.
What you faced was lifestyle inflation. Oh I have more money, need to upgrade my lifestyle. To pursue FIRE you cannot let lifestyle inflation in. Try to avoid it as much as possible because a little bit little that's how you let it in.
That's why I feel RM5m is sufficient. I want to reach at least SGD1m before I ease off. If can maybe USD1m. I can do that assuming I can generate min 12%p.a via my options. RM5m > USD1m
Remember what I say about wealth is health? That's what I am doing with my parents. There are ways to biohack their health. If you got the money, spend it on health, you won't regret it. Having healthy parents is very important. They already say they won't travel. So go walking with them in parks. They don't eat out. So my parents are very easy people. I told you I came from poverty so I am still living the poverty life.
You need to read ASSI blog. He is one of those that FIRE in his 40s and have been spending time with his parents. Now he is 55. He got extra 10 years with his parents. 10 years not wasting time in the office or work place. 10 years to be at their side. Bring them go shopping, makan.
https://singaporeanstocksinvestor.blogspot.com/?m=1That's where you are wrong.
Remember equation about time, energy, money? Play with that.
People say in 30 or 40 you don't have money or no time? What if you got all 3 time, energy and money in your 30s or 40s? That's my goal. You have at least 40 years to enjoy your life Vs 10 years. That's a very big difference. No boss to answer to. Not at mercy of your job. No need to worry what if tomorrow no job? Can my kids and wife survive? That is buying back your time. Spending good quality time with parents, kids and spouse. That is buying back time.
Would you rather travel now when you got no illness and energy Vs when you are old? Now is your golden years. Yes I agree. Goldenr years to do what you want to do in life and have no regrets.What is there to shorten compounding if you already have more than enough having more won't do anything extra? Also unless you stop investing completely or use up all your cash every month, your compounding stops. There are other ways to compound without working. I know you are antiFIRE. For me, my dividends will continue growing at 10-20%p.a. I will still be doing options. So I am still compounding even though I won't be working. I may have turn off one stream of income but I still got 2 steam of income bringing in money. The 2 stream will bring in more money even though I am not working. That's working smart.
hehehe,... I'll jump-in here. Looks like Ramjade got everything sorted out for his future.
Let's look at the past as a reference. He used to say he'll never get married and he'll remain single. Insisted on that time and time again after my rebuttals.
Look at his postings today,...hehehe,... he's talking abt finding a girl that must be like this and like that.
So,... things will chg. Anyway, good luck in finding such a girl,.. and you better hope that this girl that you will surrender your single-status certificate to and tie yourself legally to will not chg in future.... which I think you can't and you will chg due to incoming circumstances. You must also ensure your future wife does not chg too,.. again,... due to incoming circumstances.
One more thing, you said you wanted kids too, right ? I bet you're going to say you'll educate your kids to live like B40 ! I believe in reincarnation,... sometimes,... whoever gets 'reincarnated to be your kids' is really,...

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Ok - ASSI is really single, plays computer games and stays with his parents all his life. This one I admit is keeping to his words,..... ok,... but don't know-lar,.. I'm in SG always, I hear he has a few China gf's and supports them,...... but no children to look after.
Read a bit of Ramjade's looooonnnggg postings above. Want to travel also must have money,... ok ?
This post has been edited by Hansel: Nov 1 2025, 01:22 PM