QUOTE(virtualgay @ Oct 14 2025, 09:58 AM)
as a malaysian i wont even consider Australia as my sister is there for almost 30 years
once ur kids go there (in this case i refer to my sister) they never wanted to come back
now 30 years plus she has her own family and made it in life she say this to me - study australia ok, have family here = no family
dont get me wrong she has a wealthy and loving husband, she has a good income job, she has kids in australia
now she is there 30+ years and her kids are all adult
her kids is a product of australian made, australian groom, pure australian manage
here comes the problem:
1. culture and tradition all gone
2. empty nester - kids move out when there are 18, some 19 and some 20 and very young age
3. loneliness (husband still alive)
money wont fix any of the above problem
me and her grow up in a big big big family, we stay in kampung house and inside 1 house got 4 generation
Well, each to their own.once ur kids go there (in this case i refer to my sister) they never wanted to come back
now 30 years plus she has her own family and made it in life she say this to me - study australia ok, have family here = no family
dont get me wrong she has a wealthy and loving husband, she has a good income job, she has kids in australia
now she is there 30+ years and her kids are all adult
her kids is a product of australian made, australian groom, pure australian manage
here comes the problem:
1. culture and tradition all gone
2. empty nester - kids move out when there are 18, some 19 and some 20 and very young age
3. loneliness (husband still alive)
money wont fix any of the above problem
me and her grow up in a big big big family, we stay in kampung house and inside 1 house got 4 generation
i sent my children there as i cannot trust the politics of Malaysia. Nor the never ending RnR societal rhetorics of the nation.
We are empty nesters in Msia too.
The thing is whether you know how to form your social networks, whether in Msia or Aus.
As for Australisation of the children, what do you expect? Remain Malaysian?
Loneliness when hubby is still alive means there is a marriage issue.
Oct 14 2025, 10:13 AM

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