Welcome Guest ( Log In | Register )

9 Pages < 1 2 3 4 > » Bottom

Outline · [ Standard ] · Linear+

 Tinder woman - My Analysis for 40s-50s woman

views
     
@dadafu@
post Sep 24 2021, 12:48 AM

New Member
*
Junior Member
47 posts

Joined: Aug 2021
I met some psycho that if you don't share same reply at her understanding, she straight block you right away. so gancheong. no need work meh.. lol
silverhawk
post Sep 24 2021, 01:39 AM

I'm Positively Lustrous
Group Icon
Elite
4,737 posts

Joined: Jan 2003


Unker, what are you trying to accomplish?

Romantic dowan, ONS also dowan.

If you are looking for a quality partner, what makes you think that
1) They are on tinder
2) If they are, why would they choose you?

So the chances that whoever you match with is going to be what you're looking for is close to zero
McFD2R
post Sep 24 2021, 10:17 AM

Regular
******
Senior Member
1,074 posts

Joined: Sep 2013


QUOTE(silverhawk @ Sep 24 2021, 01:39 AM)
Unker, what are you trying to accomplish?

Romantic dowan, ONS also dowan.

If you are looking for a quality partner, what makes you think that
1) They are on tinder
2) If they are, why would they choose you?

So the chances that whoever you match with is going to be what you're looking for is close to zero
*
He is looking for this.
QUOTE(c64 @ Sep 23 2021, 08:02 PM)
But at my age, i am not looking for marriage. For life partner, yes.
Unker, you are looking for life partner but without commitment. Does that mean you are willing to write a will to pass all that you have to her when it's your time? People at that age aren't willing to settle with no security, assuming casual is not what they are looking for.

If I was a female widower looking for a partner, I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with a man that doesn't want to marry me. Auntie maybe had her fun during younger days and now looking for stability. Without a marriage cert nor a will, nothing of yours will go to her. Everything goes to your closest relative. It may be different if she herself is already self sustainable. And if she was, she may just be looking for some Unker to have fun, but not a life partner.
christ14
post Sep 24 2021, 10:20 AM

Regular
******
Senior Member
1,503 posts

Joined: Jul 2011
From: Grand Ol' Lady


pattern banyak unker, find sugar mummy je la
hungheykwun
post Sep 24 2021, 10:44 AM

Regular
******
Senior Member
1,058 posts

Joined: Sep 2005
From: Subang


I'm an aunty
Fit number(2) on your description
Man on Tinder are :

(1) Ridiculously good looking ones have pic to show off your body
- you so lengzai , u still want to go on tinder?
- there's a tinder for LGBT, go there la
- u look more pretty than me, i feel inferior?

(2) Fat uncles that take selfie from bottom up
- realistic, thats the view i'm getting when we meet

(3) Straight to the point
- direct chat terus call you dear, honey, darling

(4) Foreigner
- nuff said

(5) Photo with sunglasses/mask
- why so insincere? Cannot see your eyes, your eyes juling is it? or to hide your wrinkles?
- cannot see your mouth, you got gigi rongak is it?


(6) Big scenery picture, you one dot on the right
- ya i know you like nature, why you scare people see your face?

(7) Age 30, but face look like 60
- face reality la uncle

ZZR-Pilot
post Sep 24 2021, 10:55 AM

Regular
******
Senior Member
1,049 posts

Joined: Jul 2005
Tinder is a waste of time.

But when you don't have a bloody life, hopeless at socializing and meeting new people, what choice do you have?

So that's what you get on Tinder.
Maria Takagi
post Sep 24 2021, 11:27 AM

Regular
******
Senior Member
1,039 posts

Joined: Jun 2019
dunnolah.

If I am still in TS shoes.

I would likely not bother about companionship.

Just do my best for kids and for my nephews and nieces.

then arrange for old folk home to die.

die also ask for cremation and throw ashes into sea.

Just got 20 over years left in this year, why wanna still look for companionship..
MISMan
post Sep 24 2021, 11:37 AM

On my way
****
Senior Member
691 posts

Joined: Apr 2009
From: KL


QUOTE(hungheykwun @ Sep 24 2021, 10:44 AM)
I'm an aunty
Fit number(2) on your description
Man on Tinder are  :

(1) Ridiculously good looking ones have pic to show off your body
- you so lengzai , u still want to go on tinder?
- there's a tinder for LGBT, go there la
- u look more pretty than me, i feel inferior?

(2) Fat uncles that take selfie from bottom up
- realistic, thats the view i'm getting when we meet

(3) Straight to the point
- direct chat terus call you dear, honey, darling

(4) Foreigner
- nuff said

(5) Photo with sunglasses/mask
- why so insincere? Cannot see your eyes, your eyes juling is it? or to hide your wrinkles?
- cannot see your mouth, you got gigi rongak is it?
(6) Big scenery picture, you one dot on the right
- ya i know you like nature, why you scare people see your face?

(7) Age 30, but face look like 60
- face reality la uncle
*
well said! thumbup.gif

McFD2R
post Sep 24 2021, 12:34 PM

Regular
******
Senior Member
1,074 posts

Joined: Sep 2013


QUOTE(Maria Takagi @ Sep 24 2021, 11:27 AM)
dunnolah.

If I am still in TS shoes.

I would likely not bother about companionship.

Just do my best for kids and for my nephews and nieces.

then arrange for old folk home to die.

die also ask for cremation and throw ashes into sea.

Just got 20 over years left in this year, why wanna still look for companionship..
*
I would be in the same shoes. Want sex, look for hookers. It will be cheaper than looking after another auntie just for companion sake.

Though it is understandable that some people may not have many friends or relatives. Loneliness can be quite sad for some. Not everyone can deal with being alone at home. It would be like there is nothing or no one to live for. If that is the case for Unker, then I can see it from his point of view.

But if he has nephews and nieces, he should spend time with them. Unless he himself is a moody cranky Unker where none want to spend time with him.
TSc64
post Sep 24 2021, 12:55 PM

Enthusiast
*****
Junior Member
711 posts

Joined: Sep 2021


QUOTE(Maria Takagi @ Sep 24 2021, 11:27 AM)
dunnolah.

If I am still in TS shoes.

I would likely not bother about companionship.

Just do my best for kids and for my nephews and nieces.

then arrange for old folk home to die.

die also ask for cremation and throw ashes into sea.

Just got 20 over years left in this year, why wanna still look for companionship..
*
Good point.

I am doing some of these already.

Also already bought nice Condo for my ashes to stay in.

laugh.gif

QUOTE(christ14 @ Sep 24 2021, 10:20 AM)
pattern banyak unker, find sugar mummy je la
*
If handsome like Aaron Kwok, can lah. LOL.

QUOTE(ListenToTheWind @ Sep 23 2021, 10:50 PM)
Speaking of psycho I personally come across one.
First time rasa with psycho, really cannot tahan I understand why you want to block them.
That's why I so takut giving out numbers to random stranger already.
Keep call me say she very 辛苦 (Struggle) if cannot talk to me.
*
She wants your D....Just gip lah...

QUOTE(McFD2R @ Sep 24 2021, 10:17 AM)
He is looking for this.
Unker, you are looking for life partner but without commitment. Does that mean you are willing to write a will to pass all that you have to her when it's your time?  People at that age aren't willing to settle with no security, assuming casual is not what they are looking for.

If I was a female widower looking for a partner, I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with a man that doesn't want to marry me. Auntie maybe had her fun during younger days and now looking for stability. Without a marriage cert nor a will, nothing of yours will go to her. Everything goes to your closest relative. It may be different if she herself is already self sustainable. And if she was, she may just be looking for some Unker to have fun, but not a life partner.
*
Good point also. Your money is your money, my money is my money, everyone happy. If she wants fun, just look for fresh bananas lah, no need old unker.

This post has been edited by c64: Sep 24 2021, 01:02 PM
TSc64
post Sep 24 2021, 12:56 PM

Enthusiast
*****
Junior Member
711 posts

Joined: Sep 2021


QUOTE(hungheykwun @ Sep 24 2021, 10:44 AM)
I'm an aunty
Fit number(2) on your description
Man on Tinder are  :

(1) Ridiculously good looking ones have pic to show off your body
- you so lengzai , u still want to go on tinder?
- there's a tinder for LGBT, go there la
- u look more pretty than me, i feel inferior?

(2) Fat uncles that take selfie from bottom up
- realistic, thats the view i'm getting when we meet

(3) Straight to the point
- direct chat terus call you dear, honey, darling

(4) Foreigner
- nuff said

(5) Photo with sunglasses/mask
- why so insincere? Cannot see your eyes, your eyes juling is it? or to hide your wrinkles?
- cannot see your mouth, you got gigi rongak is it?
(6) Big scenery picture, you one dot on the right
- ya i know you like nature, why you scare people see your face?

(7) Age 30, but face look like 60
- face reality la uncle
*
Can see Fat Aunty is triggered... whistling.gif And all your points here applies the same to woman as well.

And some fat, never mind...wah...sounds so arrogant, call themselves "CURVY". CURVY kepala bapak ko.... doh.gif

This post has been edited by c64: Sep 24 2021, 01:06 PM
TSc64
post Sep 24 2021, 01:18 PM

Enthusiast
*****
Junior Member
711 posts

Joined: Sep 2021


QUOTE(poks @ Sep 23 2021, 06:52 PM)
wow buaya tolak mangsa... you sure unker....? or takut auntie tangkap again..
*
Scare of psychotic Single White/Yellow/Brown/Black female. They could be serial killers.
IpohGuyz
post Sep 24 2021, 11:15 PM

Getting Started
**
Junior Member
150 posts

Joined: Apr 2006


Unker sure is 48 years old and above? No wonder not really looking for free piap
1mr3tard3d
post Sep 25 2021, 04:31 PM

Enthusiast
*****
Junior Member
809 posts

Joined: Oct 2018


QUOTE(c64 @ Sep 23 2021, 06:11 PM)
To start off, unker not young.

Woman on Tinder are (Mostly looking in 38s to 48s range):

(2) Fat women - really a lot. I can accept plain looking Jane, but i cannot accept super fat woman. Many will hide photos, or show photos with face not showing body or cleverly shot photo hiding fat. I feels this is very dishonest. After chatting a while, met in person. Whooooaaaaa!!!
*
unker has no belly fat?
Hello, what r u expecting of the body figure of a lady at the age of 38-48? don't be misled by those celebrity doh.gif
when they stay active to keep in shape, u also made complaints in point #3
well, at least u learnt how to filter in the future
QUOTE(c64 @ Sep 23 2021, 06:11 PM)
(12) Attitude problem with many failed relationship - surely there is a reason for so many failed relationship.
*
so surely there is a reason that u didn't get a match u desire, everything else is variable except...hmm.gif
QUOTE(c64 @ Sep 23 2021, 06:11 PM)
Conclusion: There isn't really  much left that is good at this range. My advice for young guys, quickly pancing before it's too late if you wish to settle down. By 40, most of the good fish already left the pond.

(Tan Tan / BumbleBee doesn't works for me and all sucked).
*
different pond, different fish, who knows
try other platforms: okcupid, coffee meets bagel, facebook dating, etc
if none work, please refer to the comment above

looking forward to your review on other dating apps lol.gif
but u will probably find those listed attributes common in other apps anyway
TSc64
post Sep 25 2021, 04:34 PM

Enthusiast
*****
Junior Member
711 posts

Joined: Sep 2021


QUOTE(1mr3tard3d @ Sep 25 2021, 04:31 PM)
unker has no belly fat?
Hello, what r u expecting of the body figure of a lady at the age of 38-48? don't be misled by those celebrity doh.gif
when they stay active to keep in shape, u also made complaints in point #3
well, at least u learnt how to filter in the future

so surely there is a reason that u didn't get a match u desire, everything else is variable except...hmm.gif

different pond, different fish, who knows
try other platforms: okcupid, coffee meets bagel, facebook dating, etc
if none work, please refer to the comment above

looking forward to your review on other dating apps  lol.gif
but u will probably find those listed attributes common in other apps anyway
*
Read carefully. Fat and SUPER FAT are different. Met one on Tinder. Her arm twice my size. Photo can't see at all. Need i say more? Lucky unker have no heart problem, else dieded already. I have also met a 48 who is pretty good shape. So there.

Also got 38 say unker doesn't looks my age and looks younger. Unker not that bad u know. Not lengchai but not Pat Leung Kam either.

This post has been edited by c64: Sep 25 2021, 04:39 PM
laksamana
post Sep 25 2021, 04:41 PM

Regular
******
Senior Member
1,280 posts

Joined: Nov 2006
From: An Illuminati organization ..


TS,

I know one very beautiful >45 milf, husband chowed, left with one teenager now

She very scared to open up ...
TSc64
post Sep 25 2021, 04:46 PM

Enthusiast
*****
Junior Member
711 posts

Joined: Sep 2021


QUOTE(laksamana @ Sep 25 2021, 04:41 PM)
TS,

I know one very beautiful >45 milf, husband chowed, left with one teenager now

She very scared to open up ...
*
Wei, don't be pimp. Unker good person. Anyway, those who have scarred experience are usually also problem. if not willing to open up, it's best let them take their time to heal instead of rushing into another relationship.

I also know some divorcee, under 40s also got, ex husbands all char siews. One left woman for young Thai, another don't even want to see the kid....really inhuman.

This post has been edited by c64: Sep 25 2021, 04:48 PM
youngblood29us
post Sep 25 2021, 05:44 PM

On my way
****
Junior Member
533 posts

Joined: Mar 2011


Unker divert abit.. Wana understand widowers.. Do you miss ur wife? Do you feel guilty looking for partners? I always had this feeling if my wife no longer alive, I won't be able to get intimate with another woman.. Anyway this is just me.. I really look up to those who can move on..
TSc64
post Sep 25 2021, 06:18 PM

Enthusiast
*****
Junior Member
711 posts

Joined: Sep 2021


QUOTE(youngblood29us @ Sep 25 2021, 05:44 PM)
Unker divert abit.. Wana understand widowers.. Do you miss ur wife? Do you feel guilty looking for partners? I always had this feeling if my wife no longer alive, I won't be able to get intimate with another woman.. Anyway this is just me.. I really look up to those who can move on..
*
Before i answer...are you married?
cfa28
post Sep 25 2021, 07:35 PM

Look at all my stars!!
*******
Senior Member
4,742 posts

Joined: Jan 2012


TS, to test your definition of curvy.

Maria Carey

Joanne Kum

Beyonce

Adele (before and after)

It was fun reading your post.

Please update us on your dating progress

Your story is almost similar to the reboot of Sex in the City

All the women in the 50s...

Would men still be chasing after 50s pussy and how hard would they chase

This post has been edited by cfa28: Sep 25 2021, 07:44 PM

9 Pages < 1 2 3 4 > » Top
 

Change to:
| Lo-Fi Version
0.0200sec    0.40    6 queries    GZIP Disabled
Time is now: 28th March 2024 - 11:40 PM