u could fix this in just 1 day really. she just needs to feel special. when was the last time u made her feel like that ?

even during emco you can take her out. use airbnb search for entire house/bungalow/condo with private jacuzzi/pool etc within your emco area. both of you can go on weekend trips alone. change the scene. spice things up. nowdays it is not expensive.

also before any copulation, u need to prep her, make her ready, make her want you.

try it lol and you'll see ... for some guys it is a very natural thing to do ...for others ..just need to step outside the comfort zone n explore ... just dont go overboard n try this with other ladies other than your gf/wife la ..lol

then it is another topic entirely already than what's asked in the first post in this thread.