So I have tried with two girls, and have very bad experience, when it ended the girl block me on social media and then didn't unblock me but ask her friend to say she still likes me and stuff. But it's toxic so I didn't bother. So now everyone thinks I'm the bad guy because I didn't chase her back, because society always believed that the girl is right. But the problem is now the ex is in a company that I want to apply to and now it disrupt my career. So how do I make sure that while I'm trying to find a suitable person I don't somehow ruin my career when the relationship doesn't work because the girl isnt happy of the way that I treat her. Maybe the girl want me to carry her handbag every day and pay for all the meals. So if the girl behavior is toxic like that and if I reject her that means my love is not pure that I'm the bad guy. So if she bad mouth then maybe her friend is in a company that I'm applying for then it ruin my chances of going to the company and reject my application. Am I overthinking or is it just my bad luck.
Please help me find a solution so I can overcome the trauma and start dating.
Trauma stop me from trying