She was a having episodes of panic attack after asr till she goes to sleep, and she would be depressed throughout the day, to me it was just like a typical behaviour when someone is not right somewhere in their head (mental illness).

That escalated to constant arguements till she cant even stand to be near me.

It was not a saka lah..some sort of sihir pemisah. But honestly I didnt believe that kind of stuff, not even after she is ok. Only after I decided to learn the healing crafts myself I am convinced that such things do exist.