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diffyhelman2
post May 5 2021, 05:25 PM

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QUOTE(Cincai lar @ May 5 2021, 02:03 PM)
is that a forced marriage ???

marriage is the couples personal preference,..  this is not ancient China custom that parents choose your marriage for son or daughter,.. under introduction of "mei po" and marry a stranger,.. that was forced marriage,..this is the 21st century,..
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Good traditional Indian boy and girl family will arrange marriage one. Still very much the norm in India, even among those that migrated to developed countries like usa. If panjeet case that simply knock up amoi and then free marry... confirm his family not the respectable kind.
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post May 5 2021, 05:44 PM

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QUOTE(Candy12 @ May 5 2021, 05:33 PM)
The girl met up with that Indian boy during campus study overseas probably got spell bound by him with his sweet talks, came back continued attending church and slowly brainwashed into believing about the race mixing until the rice turned porridge.

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Christian still end up pregnant out of wedlock? biggrin.gif brows.gif
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post May 5 2021, 06:04 PM

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QUOTE(Candy12 @ May 5 2021, 06:01 PM)
It's true. I got many Indian sikh  friends all their children recommended brides by friends and family.
That type of culture I REALLY respect! thumbsup.gif

This Panjeet using Christianity to get girls under his blanket penungang agama type. His own kind no minachi meh? Why disturb other people's girls.
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The higher caste families in India and their diaspora all do arranged marriage. It keeps things "respectable" since intercaste marriage and marrying riff raff is strictly taboo.

Traditional joo families also a lot like this (although not strictly arrange, they very rarely marry outside their clan). Unless you are like Ivanka Trump (she still had to convert in).

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post May 5 2021, 08:30 PM

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QUOTE(Candy12 @ May 5 2021, 12:14 PM)
One of my aunt just committed suicide recently. She only had one beloved daughter whom she allowed to attend church and you know what happened?

The daughter chose to marry an yindian boy from the church and elope away.

On the day of her wedding, the father(my aunt's husband) was so mad that he refused to attend the wedding ceremony and give his blessing to the couple.

My aunt's life changed after that, her husband also no more interests in the her leaving her at home alone until she became so depressed that she took her own life. The husband like no eyes see anymore kept keeping to his own relatives side because he was so disappointed that his only beloved daughter which he had so loved her funded all her education overseas only to return to Malaysia to elope away with an yindian man from church.
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Honestly though i don’t see why the uncle of yours can be that racist until can disown daughter and reject wife just because she married an Indian.
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post May 5 2021, 08:57 PM

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QUOTE(JohnL77 @ May 5 2021, 08:32 PM)
Maybe gangster type? Or pls send bobs and vagene type. biggrin.gif
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Perhaps. But last time got bunch of uncles tell me openly they will never ever accept their daughter marrying a CEcA.
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post May 5 2021, 08:59 PM

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QUOTE(JohnL77 @ May 5 2021, 08:58 PM)
Marry earth prince ok?
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post May 5 2021, 09:21 PM

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QUOTE(JohnL77 @ May 5 2021, 09:04 PM)
Marry CECA 1 generation only become halfling. If grandchildren marry back kiasu, then great-grandchildren become back 3/4 kiasu. Eventually it wouldn't matter anyway just like Han kiasu think they pure Han even though their DNA got small percentage minorities R.

Marry earth prince, all future generations earth prince. Worth it?
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