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TSsweetdisposition
post Feb 27 2021, 10:21 PM, updated 5y ago

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does it works ?

how to make it works ?

any experience about this that you care to share?
ayam_kampung
post Feb 27 2021, 10:44 PM

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QUOTE(sweetdisposition @ Feb 27 2021, 10:21 PM)
does it works ?

how to make it works ?

any experience about this that you care to share?
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ayam sharing these as ayam also came from broken family

does it works?
- depend on both parents and their mentally state. if they still saw each other as enemy even after divorce, co parenting will not work

how to make it works ?
- need to state hard in both parent mind that these were done for the children and not for themselves. in easier term, lower your ego first and please do it for the child.
if you fuck these up, there higher chance the kid also fuck up once grown up (sorry for harsh word)

any experience about this that you care to share?
- ayam can say both of my parent as hands on experience. by not lowering ego, the one who be blame point is the kids (ayam and other sibling).
the also cause no communicate hence no proper love and care during grown up (all ayam remember when it taking turn is it your mom/dad who cause these divorce and your kids are just burden).

sad but that the true.

and please no blame point. adult blaming each other (when it your turn to take care of kid) is very bad parenting.
plus point, after kid grown up and understand complex thing like love, please tell them the true why these co-parenting start in 1st place.
they deserve to know also and they also have the right to know their parent is happy.

(sorry if melodramatic but ayam just share from ayam own point of view)




 

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