Are you above average? Your race?

I'm below average. I'm overweight, hairline thinning, low wages site kuli that still live with my mama.

My race is <racial reference removed>

Years ago, I met my wife thru okcupid, and met up with someone from tinder before, only after using for short time. And I was in small town, not Klang Valley during that time.

I think it is OK, but yep have to filter through a lot before landing on right person. Same like offline dating lol.

anyone knows why OkCupid not filtering based on my age preferences?

and the Likes You part goddamn, tempted to pay but read it's OkCupid's scam lol

I'm using CMB now after disappointed with Tinder. I don't understand the meaning inside CMB.
In the chat section...
...Person1: Congrats, it's a match! You matched with Person1 thanks to Discover Likes. (Person1 avatar has a love icon overlay).
...Person2: Person2 liked you back!
Why does the Person2 avatar doesn't have the love icon overlay? I think I click like for Person2, same as Person1. I cannot remember.

I installed CMB first, from Friday until now going steady with 1 match

OkCupid also got 1 match, will see how that goes

i've been meeting, dating at this area around 10 years already
of course it works, if you average guy you have to be even proactive at generating volume for yourself, cause the females can easily swipe you left plus their attention time on the app is very less.

my record was meeting four(4) different females per day (one malay sis that works for escorting, another indon sis worked at snooker centre; the other two being forgotten)

don't ask me about the quality of these females top top or not, cause i've been doing extreme social challenges for myself

tinder more for fun experiences.

cmb more for serious friendships and relationships. cmb usually higher value girls for me.

i like facebook dating, far less competition for mine
tantan is so dead, too many scammers compared to previous years
cmb my account had been blocked without prior notice
at least tinder will warn you for first time

facebook dating those ngam me ones mostly prostitutes lol. tantan i lazy to type chinese haha. cmb still the best. but super limited likes and the beans are so bloody expensive. why did u get warned though

maybe i keep texting (kind of spam) to same girl(s) within a week
because i've standard messages to apply if the girl doesnt respond to me within days
facebook dating is similar like tinder, sometimes you can get exceptional quality like vietnamese expats , or cambodian
in an old school way, i still play fb mutual friend suggestion
i added one girl from there recently, she was surprised i spoke her mother tongue language
so i got her telegram, and we met on the next day

cmb i had not much lucks, maybe the girls too high quality for me, i just have mediocre photos

This post has been edited by -mystery-: Aug 14 2022, 11:20 PM

What's full name of CMB?

Coffee Meets Bagel

Do you guys pay for CMB premium or just go for free stuff? RM70/month seems not bad.

never paid for cmb, but tinder/tantan for some boosts

For CMB, do you click heart and wait for them to like you back or straight message them?

Sorry new to this. Lol.

u sure u can straight away message? (normally a premium feature)

Thanks. Cause so far I just click like. Never tried to chat yes. Yes. I am on free CMB. Not paid version.

if it's under your Suggested, you can send a message and free to swipe, 20 profiles or so a day not too sure

if Discover can only heart, swipe need beans, if out of beans need to pay

Are there many scammers in CMB?