Discussion about Dating Apps & Agency, Tinder, OKC, CMB, Lunch Actually, others
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 Jan 28 2024, 02:26 PM
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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Jan 28 2024, 12:33 PM) cure your nice guy tendencies This. Unfortunately, being a nice guy is the long hard road to attract girls. Bad boy is like a cheat code. This post has been edited by Cubalagi: Jan 28 2024, 04:19 PM |
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Jan 29 2024, 04:41 PM
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QUOTE(Takudan @ Jan 29 2024, 12:55 AM) It's not about being "bad" or an ass. You are generally correct. But to comment from a relatively experienced man perspective, the guy needs to build attraction, not just affection. There can still be a lot of affection in a frienzone relationship (i care about you, but as a brother 😆).Main problem as a "nice guy": he goes ALL IN showering his affection - as modern internet calls it "simp", and then they expect the girl to "return favours" in the form of her affection. You can't just trade your kindness for affection... A bad boy can generate a lot of attraction to him. And true that you cant bribe your way. QUOTE It really depends on the lady - I've also heard a different story from a friend who's a lot more extroverted/open. She wouldn't have dated her current bf if he didn't go for the bold kiss when they weren't even dating. In my book, that guy would've been an ass The early kiss is a high risk high rewards move. but they did say.. you really just have to read the moment. At that time, he just thought it's the right thing and went for it, and he was right.High risk coz get it wrong, the girl may never want to see you again or slap you or call the police. High rewards coz if it works, u cut the courting drama and get faster results. It has a good chance to work if the girl is already attracted to the man. The tricky part for the guy is knowing whether she is attracted to him or not. This post has been edited by Cubalagi: Jan 29 2024, 04:58 PM |
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Nov 5 2025, 09:02 PM
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QUOTE(Redshelf411 @ Nov 2 2025, 09:55 AM) Anyone having luck finding your long term partner off dating apps? Me, indirectly.I've tried = no luck. My GF is a friend of a girl I met on dating apps. |
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