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 I love a girl colleague from Penang., She wanna resign & back Penang.

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TSwesternkl
post Feb 22 2021, 10:09 PM, updated 4y ago

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Hi guys, i need serious help here.

Recently I found myself fall in love my girl colleague. She is from Penang, 2 years ago she came KL (my office) to work is due to accompany her bf together to KL.

6 months ago, her bf broke up with her due to unknown reason (she not telling). Now she wanna resign and go back to Penang to reunion with her family, and find job in Penang.

I'm 6 years elder than her, is this an issue?

Any action can be done by me?

Thanks~

This post has been edited by westernkl: Feb 22 2021, 10:11 PM
TSwesternkl
post Feb 22 2021, 10:43 PM

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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Feb 22 2021, 10:34 PM)
if she stayed, she may not like him that much
if she left, he might be LDR with her, and its going to not last long
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(If she stayed, she may not like him that much)

What is the meaning of this?


TSwesternkl
post Feb 22 2021, 10:53 PM

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QUOTE(gundamsp01 @ Feb 22 2021, 10:49 PM)
based on my experience, just voice out your interest in her, and ask her for a dinner just the both of you if she is interested.

if get a no, just move on, simple
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But ppl said: "Relationship is can be grown up as time goes on".

Is this saying true?
TSwesternkl
post Feb 23 2021, 12:16 AM

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QUOTE(wangpr @ Feb 22 2021, 11:54 PM)
Ask her she prefer penang lifestyle or KL lifestyle....

If her answer is KL lifestyle, then you direct say to her, please stay in KL and give you a chance to chase her........
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She say prefer Penang/Kedah lifestyle, at least can reunion with parents easily...


TSwesternkl
post Feb 23 2021, 07:56 PM

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QUOTE(SaberCortez @ Feb 23 2021, 05:48 PM)
mf, here the first thing u should do.

Hey <insert girl name> Since you might be leaving to penang, wondering if you are open for a last dinner?

Wtf with these confess shit? Are yall dating to be confessing shit? this not some Juliet Romeo. You have no idea if she is even attracted to you. Even if you are you guys not even sure you are compatible yet. Yet you panicking like she is already your gf. Keep your cool man. No one wants a desperate guy.

After that during that night just enjoy it as much as u can. After u done that u can probably ask her what her plan etc.
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She wanna back Penang look job or be entrepreneur.
TSwesternkl
post Feb 24 2021, 07:19 PM

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QUOTE(kambingkoh @ Feb 24 2021, 03:13 PM)
I tumpang here to see show only biggrin.gif

But if you want to get her diamonds, you can go to bride and groom section to look for me LOL

Anyway, since I am here, first of all, you have to know few things:
1. Are you her type of guy?
2. How well do you know her?
3. Do you share common values?

But if you don't care or don't know the answers for the questions above, then muka must be tembok, keep ask her out before she goes back. No need any reason. If want reason, then is to EAT. say you want find someone teman you eat. everyone needs to eat everyday, one day 3 meals. And yet to count in desserts and coffee. If can afford, go to somewhere fancy sometimes, not daily la, like sometimes kopitiam, sometimes fancy restaurant lor. But if for farewell, like some other people suggest, then bring her to somewhere decent enough that can sit longer and talk longer lor.

Again, want diamond look for me ya LOL. I give you discount if you end up with her in the end. XD
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What is common values?
TSwesternkl
post Feb 25 2021, 01:35 AM

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QUOTE(5igzag @ Feb 24 2021, 11:28 PM)
yeah, this doesn't come easy, especially when there is an age gap, where both are standing on different stage in life/career.
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I'm elder than her 6 years, is this big issue?
TSwesternkl
post Feb 27 2021, 02:24 AM

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QUOTE(ymc2303 @ Feb 25 2021, 04:30 PM)
falling in love with her is just one sided from you.. unless you say you have dated her several times and both are sharing the same interest of wanting to go more than being just friends. if your feelings for her are strong, just restraint until you get to know her more. if she is yours, she is yours. if she isn't, she isn't.
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Guys, i have spoken with her, she is insist wanna back Penang with jobless status.

Ok fine, i let her go back. I hope if she couldn't get a good job, she will come back KL to look for me.

I let her face what is cruel world.
TSwesternkl
post Feb 27 2021, 09:32 PM

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QUOTE(malz89 @ Feb 27 2021, 02:58 PM)
Second this, shouldn't TS be wishing her the best?

Liking someone is not about having him/her. It is more to wish him/her the best.

Since she has decided to leave, well, it's clear she has no interest with TS. Just move on.
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If i like a girl, i must have her body as well.
TSwesternkl
post Feb 27 2021, 11:36 PM

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QUOTE(gundamsp01 @ Feb 27 2021, 11:29 PM)
sadly you don't behave like a mature person by saying that.
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If u like a girl, but she doesn't like her, u also wish her Happy Forever with other guys?

Don't u feel jealous & hurt?
TSwesternkl
post Mar 6 2021, 10:20 PM

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QUOTE(Nicklly @ Mar 5 2021, 09:10 PM)
hey ts, she is pregnant and that's the reason she going back hometown, do not get shock to see her after months and telling you she has a baby
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How u know she is pregnant?

 

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