be the one that she can depend on.
dont be sissy beating around the bush.
I love a girl colleague from Penang., She wanna resign & back Penang.
I love a girl colleague from Penang., She wanna resign & back Penang.
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be the one that she can depend on.
dont be sissy beating around the bush. |
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if u wait for her to go penang later can go there and ask her out jalan2 after pandemik gone... if she is still single
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mf, here the first thing u should do.
Hey <insert girl name> Since you might be leaving to penang, wondering if you are open for a last dinner? Wtf with these confess shit? Are yall dating to be confessing shit? this not some Juliet Romeo. You have no idea if she is even attracted to you. Even if you are you guys not even sure you are compatible yet. Yet you panicking like she is already your gf. Keep your cool man. No one wants a desperate guy. After that during that night just enjoy it as much as u can. After u done that u can probably ask her what her plan etc. This post has been edited by SaberCortez: Feb 23 2021, 05:50 PM |
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QUOTE(SaberCortez @ Feb 23 2021, 05:48 PM) mf, here the first thing u should do. She wanna back Penang look job or be entrepreneur.Hey <insert girl name> Since you might be leaving to penang, wondering if you are open for a last dinner? Wtf with these confess shit? Are yall dating to be confessing shit? this not some Juliet Romeo. You have no idea if she is even attracted to you. Even if you are you guys not even sure you are compatible yet. Yet you panicking like she is already your gf. Keep your cool man. No one wants a desperate guy. After that during that night just enjoy it as much as u can. After u done that u can probably ask her what her plan etc. |
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faster confess to her and ask her to stay for you or you will lose her forever
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she already wan go back penang and u wan confess
mana logic unless u can make her fall in love with u in an instant, wat makes her change mind stay here and not go back penang and be with u? |
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why not take it as a excuse to treat her a meal or dinner as a farewell. during the dinner you may hint her about your intention. from there you may se how it goes.... if she not even keen to have a dinner with you, perhaps u should move on....
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I tumpang here to see show only
![]() But if you want to get her diamonds, you can go to bride and groom section to look for me LOL Anyway, since I am here, first of all, you have to know few things: 1. Are you her type of guy? 2. How well do you know her? 3. Do you share common values? But if you don't care or don't know the answers for the questions above, then muka must be tembok, keep ask her out before she goes back. No need any reason. If want reason, then is to EAT. say you want find someone teman you eat. everyone needs to eat everyday, one day 3 meals. And yet to count in desserts and coffee. If can afford, go to somewhere fancy sometimes, not daily la, like sometimes kopitiam, sometimes fancy restaurant lor. But if for farewell, like some other people suggest, then bring her to somewhere decent enough that can sit longer and talk longer lor. Again, want diamond look for me ya LOL. I give you discount if you end up with her in the end. XD This post has been edited by kambingkoh: Feb 24 2021, 03:14 PM |
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QUOTE(kambingkoh @ Feb 24 2021, 03:13 PM) I tumpang here to see show only What is common values?![]() But if you want to get her diamonds, you can go to bride and groom section to look for me LOL Anyway, since I am here, first of all, you have to know few things: 1. Are you her type of guy? 2. How well do you know her? 3. Do you share common values? But if you don't care or don't know the answers for the questions above, then muka must be tembok, keep ask her out before she goes back. No need any reason. If want reason, then is to EAT. say you want find someone teman you eat. everyone needs to eat everyday, one day 3 meals. And yet to count in desserts and coffee. If can afford, go to somewhere fancy sometimes, not daily la, like sometimes kopitiam, sometimes fancy restaurant lor. But if for farewell, like some other people suggest, then bring her to somewhere decent enough that can sit longer and talk longer lor. Again, want diamond look for me ya LOL. I give you discount if you end up with her in the end. XD |
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QUOTE(westernkl @ Feb 24 2021, 07:19 PM) Erm. I think is call 三观 in Chinese.Meaning do you guys have the same standards/views regarding a particular issue. If you always disagree with each other, both won't be happy in the long run. Of course, you can try to accommodate each other, but accommodate too much may also deteriorate relationship. |
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QUOTE(kambingkoh @ Feb 24 2021, 10:53 PM) Erm. I think is call 三观 in Chinese. yeah, this doesn't come easy, especially when there is an age gap, where both are standing on different stage in life/career.Meaning do you guys have the same standards/views regarding a particular issue. If you always disagree with each other, both won't be happy in the long run. Of course, you can try to accommodate each other, but accommodate too much may also deteriorate relationship. |
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QUOTE(westernkl @ Feb 25 2021, 01:35 AM) Actually age gap I don't think is a problem, 6 years is acceptable la. But you have to share something similar only got something to talk about.Like you don't like travel she likes travel, or you like movie she doesn't like movie, then to me is not compatible la. And this is not even talking about values yet, just different hobby. And if you don't know what she likes or dislikes, I won't use the word "love" yet. Maybe "like" is a better word. If you don't know her that in-depth yet, just muka tembok a bit and ask her eat, drink, and chit-chat lor. Now MCO, she cannot do interstate travel yet, so you have time to ask her out. Just take things easy and have an open mind. And what have you been doing over the past 6 months??? ![]() |
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falling in love with her is just one sided from you.. unless you say you have dated her several times and both are sharing the same interest of wanting to go more than being just friends. if your feelings for her are strong, just restraint until you get to know her more. if she is yours, she is yours. if she isn't, she isn't.
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