If it was the man that kantoi, he would be cool as hell. She would demand a divorce but he just deny her and marry the scandal in Golok. No Hal.

Turns the kid into a woman hater who either kills them for sport or is unable to develop and maintain relationships with women because of this traumatic event.
Yeah, great for the kid who isn't equipped to process this and his parents also aren't equipped to guide him also.

You think these mamats actually pay? Even rich fellas like ac miz*l also don't pay and there is nothing the courts can do.
This mamat has all the power, she can't talak him and he can leave her in limbo with the kids forever.