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metalfire
post Nov 29 2020, 03:12 PM

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do the right thing and take custody of your daughter. She deserves at least a loving parent.
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post Nov 29 2020, 03:51 PM

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QUOTE(thunderloh @ Nov 29 2020, 03:17 PM)
She will have full custody of my daughter and my house.
I'm so tired around in same house.
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but she's not earning and doing anything to support the child.

1. you will need to provide for your daughter until she's 18 or 21?
2. the house is under joint or sole owner is you?
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post Nov 29 2020, 04:29 PM

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QUOTE(thunderloh @ Nov 29 2020, 03:55 PM)
Yup,i pay alimony. House under my name.

Material stuff i can always find ways to get it.

"When there is a will there is a way"

Some say i got to let go of my ego. but i really got no ego left to let go.
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ok. it will be a tough 10-13 years ahead.
cos the wife will be happy leeching off you during that time.

i would have done it differently, will record all the proof necessary to show the court that she's incapable financially and domestically.
have the daughter follow you instead and you keep the house to raise the family and she move out. Alimony settle to the minimum until your daughter is 18 or 21.
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post Nov 29 2020, 05:36 PM

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QUOTE(thunderloh @ Nov 29 2020, 04:58 PM)
the topic of me taking custody daughter did pop up, she threaten me she rather suicide with my daughter than let me take her.
Alot of time she will use my daughter as a shield in her argument.

and when that happen i back off. Dont want to continue be toxic infront of my daughter.

Infact almost most of the time she use this method coz she know i always will backoff. (Sound spineless right?)

I dont know how to balance my job and daughter if i alone take care of her.
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like this can actually file report and make a good case against her. Her lawyers will have a field day trying to defend her case.

try to think what is best for your daughter then work it out from there albeit slow steps.

what happens when an incapable woman invites another male into your house where your daughter is being brought up.

This post has been edited by metalfire: Nov 29 2020, 05:37 PM

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