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joedpa82
post Nov 29 2020, 03:15 PM

On my way
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QUOTE(thunderloh @ Nov 29 2020, 03:56 PM)
Hi, Maybe someone can help advice abit. Feeling so tired now...

Already finish JPN counseling and have submitted the document to lawyer to proceed with the divorce.
Married 12 years.
1 daughter 8yrs old.

Situation wife:
Does not wash dishes.
Does not clean/tidy house.
Have a habit of hording.
Destroy my personal belongings without any remorse.
Wash cloth in washing machine but leave it inside few days, if even put outside basket will not put to hanger to dry it.
(All the above i have to do it for her)

No family value.
Her mother die when she is young, most of her young life live in nanny house. No one teach her about basic things)
Chinese new year she rather stay than follow me back, give many excuses.
Abusive to me mentally and physically. (Multiple police made against her.)

Lies and deceive.
A history of gambling(supermarket contest, lucky draw, need buy certain x to participate).
An active member of MLM Axxxy, call the up line diamond step father.(What type of business ethics is this?)
Many fight during her Axxxy active period.
Like to go 3~5 day fraser hill for those Axxxy seminar/course.
Now currently doing so call property agent but mlm style.

Bad finance planning
- her 1st car viva, multiple late payment get confiscate by bank but manage to pay off at the end.
- sell of viva buy herself vios, multiple late payment more than 6~8month, now dont dare to drive out the car from the parking lot. Family member try to persuade her not to commit to buy car but wont listen.
- Got people come to house knocking door to collect money.

I cant use my own car because she sent my daughter to school. Petrol i always pump full tank, i have to use bike to work everyday.
My House she is not paying anything at all, not help even paid a single bill.

As far as i see, she is not making any money, but is 24hour busy on the phone.

i know "its take both hand to clap". But enough is enough, i cant continue with all her bs.
Am i taking the right step by divorcing her? shocking.gif
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I'm not saying that you should stay but thats one hell of a relationship u have.


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