Why after 14 years now only complain? Prior to marriage, you didn't know she have all the behavior? If you know why marry in the first place? If you don't know, why no quickly divorce before having a daughter and after 14 years only take action? Divorce now because of petty reasons will destroy everyone life including your wife and daughter. Don't want do house chores, then hire a full time maid. Settle half your problem. She work many mlm jobs, if she bringing home some revenue, why not? Not all mlm are lies. Financial problem, then you as husband take charge and control household financial and her financial lo.