bumped into one on LYN the other day. kept thinking that everything is about him only wan, and kept going off topic to talk about himself while at the same time demanding to stay on topic

But some can change themselves quite drastically too. I know of one in real life who literally did a 180 degree turn after getting married.

even more drastic I would say. Originally he was staying in a really nice and huge condo unit in one of those expensive areas. pretty much the show off type, etc. Apparently he then met somebody who had him questioning himself about what's the entire purpose of his lavish lifestyle and his need to show off, and his need to become the center of attention. Sold off that condo, moved into a far smaller place with a far simpler lifestyle after that.

I think in /k/ a lot of narcissistic personality disorder

I think I might know one ktard from real life professionally. Owner of a big service provider so yeah his/her flex is legit. Not a frequent poster though but his/her tastes and mannerism is so specific, about 70% to 80% sure that's the person

And yeah the flexing (attractiveness on top of wealth) is compensating, face problem but not aware of it

During uni time, I had a friend (Still in contact from time to time btw).

This amoi has some narcissistic princess disorder, or so I would call.
Very entitled gedik type. I'm sure we had encounter these type of people before.

We're in science stream btw, so there will be practical experiment going on twice a week.
And us, a group of 4, 2 amoi (one of them is the princess) and 2 ah beng (me included).

1. Everytime experiment, she will be the one having all the nice moment of handling the equipment and the fun stuff.
Every fun has to come to an end, and then she ciao. Left all the glassware for us to wash. Her reason; her hand cannot
handle detergent.

2. She had a few simps. One time she left her pen in a library (we're now in another block 1km away from the library), she asked one of her simp
to go all the way to library and collect the pen for her.

3. The origin of her narcissistic princess disorder: 2 years ago during CNY, I went to her house along with my friends. Her mother had the same attitude.
Demanding and self-entitled. Pity her father. Her father early 50s, but look so worn down. Wrinkles everywhere like 70s. Big house. 4 cars. 3 belongs to her mother, her younger brother and herself. Nice new car btw (BMW for the mother, Honda for her and her brother). The father? Proton Wira.

4. 6months after graduation; we had a meetup. By then I already secured a job 1 month before my final paper (can't afford to stay jobless due to financial condition and my parent can't support me). She's still jobless and we're enjoying life to the max. Going here and there posting insta stories on all the fancy food. Had a new car because she Honda she had that time already reached 5 years old. New car is a hatchback merc. I don't even know what model that is. Reason why she's still jobless; she wants a job that can pay her >4.5k. The highest offer she got is 3.1k that time, but she rejected the offer because it's too far from her (35min away from her home).

5. 1.5 years after graduation; we had another meetup. Christmas 2019. She ended up in a company 15min away from her house and had 1.8k basic + OT allowance. After her probation she got RM50 increment. She was complaining to us. We just listen.

Do I dislike her as a friend? No.
Would I want to have her as my gf (she had a crush on me during uni time)? Big no.
Am I jelly of her? Partially yes for the tongkat.
Would I bang her? Yes, almost did (story for another time)

Not a fictional story btw.

I dont think so. She is still receiving allowance from her father.

Apparently her father provide her additional 3k per month. Reduced a bit from Uni time; 3.5k per month.

She proudly announce that to us (we're very close friends btw).

Her merc installment + insurance is covered by the father.
Live in parent's house.
Her rich bf will also shower her with gifts and all. (she had a bf btw during uni time. Did I mention she had a crush on me too during Uni time? And almost slept with her too.)

She is. That’s why I jelly sometimes haha

One thing I never jelly about her is her mental capabilities. She had grown too dependent on others and would whine whenever she couldn’t get what she wants.
One thing I don’t like

Meaning someone suffering from narcissistic personality disorder. Do such people have any chance at redemption or are they doomed to self-destruct?