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cfa28
post Nov 22 2020, 09:49 AM

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So what is your intention.

Do you want to be more than just academic support friends

Btw, a man will not chat with another woman for so long without some intentions other than just supporting a fellow course mate


Just ask him.. Are you married

If he says no, send him his photos with his wife and family

Tell him that you don't want his wife to misunderstand your relationship



cfa28
post Nov 25 2020, 06:19 PM

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QUOTE(sweet_pez @ Nov 25 2020, 03:20 PM)


Otherwise if you're really not interested,
- just cut down the chatting and go straight to academics
- whenever he flirts, just avoid it and divert straight back to main topic
- reduce the frequency of chatting with him
- show that you're disinterested in his advances
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But its so obvious that TS is interested

But anyway seems there are different state and so long as they don't meet up for a fling.. It's just all talk and no action so does not consider as affairs
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post Feb 19 2021, 03:38 PM

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QUOTE(anilin @ Feb 18 2021, 02:51 PM)
What if lets say I miss him a little and should I put down my dignity and talk to him, just a little?
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You have to be honest and ask yourself what do you want out of this relationship with the married guy and also what he wants out of it.


it seems that you have developed some sort of emotional attachment

They say a man will not say he had an affair until he actually slept with another woman

But to the woman, the affair begins when they developed emotional attachments

So do you really want to have an affair with a married man


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post Feb 21 2021, 10:25 PM

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TS. as i said a man will not consider it as an affair until there is s3x involved.

A woman on the other hand will consider it as an affair when there is emotions involved.

If we reverse the situation, would you be happy if your spouse or partner starts to chat with other women.

Friendly chat now and then is fine but not too often loh.

But as I said what do you want to achieve out of this in the end.

I can say for sure is that the married man wants to sleep with you.

But is that what you want. If it is then don't waste time and just do it


But Why waste what is remaining of your precious youth on a married man.

Money you can find back but time and youth... Once lost cannot be bought back

I do know of women who are the mistress, some of them even have kids with the married man.

You condemn the women but you really feel sorry for the children.

Always asking why papa or daddy can never come to school for their performance


 

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