After 3 pages, I still don't see what TS is actually asking. It seems she likes the attention. So, she thinks it is ok to entertain the fella's XXX comments. A rationale person will not entertain a married person.
The fact that she is justifying why she should continue shows she isn't rationale. There are other academicians out there who can assist, not to mention Mr. Google.
Thus, all her post in here is just seek acceptance from the internet of what she is doing.
Chatting with married guy