QUOTE(anilin @ Nov 22 2020, 02:39 PM)
You let the starving man look & smell the food but not let him eat. I wouldn't call that as a gain. You just make him wanting to eat even more Chatting with married guy
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QUOTE(anilin @ Nov 22 2020, 02:39 PM) You let the starving man look & smell the food but not let him eat. I wouldn't call that as a gain. You just make him wanting to eat even more |
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you enjoyed the attention he gave, it further developed when he actually helped with your academics.
when he moved on to xxx topic, usually the first response from girl is to get disgusted or worst block the male altogether, but you told yourself is ok with it knowing his background, consciously you know this is a bad idea, but subconsciously you want him badly, you want the thrill he can give, the vitamin D you crave, you still entertain him and not cut him off like any sane person would do now go, go for the love you wanted, separate him from his wife, and live a life happily ever after |
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QUOTE(guess0410 @ Nov 21 2020, 08:37 PM) This... Just imagine, when you married next time.. Would you like your husband to do the same too? And what you would expect the other female to do.. If the wife is a quick tempered.. and she found out, be prepared to have a nice drama with her on the busy road side / office. ![]() anilin liked this post
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QUOTE(anilin @ Nov 21 2020, 08:03 PM) Few months ago one of my classmate (online course thingy) text me personally to ask about serious matter. It was just normal chat once a while. Hahha you sound familair.. hmm. After 1 month, he suddenly addresses me Lenglui, and started other topics but I consider it as casual chat, we often exchange lunch photos, etc.. Few times he would ask whether got miss him or not? I avoided these kind of questions most time. I found his profile in facebook and happened to know he's married with a son somemore. He's younger than me 4 years but he lied about his age, and status too. Guess that's common. . We talked in phone before for like only 1 minute, and video call for 2 minutes. . He will share to me many info and case studies related to our field of studies.. Helped in my academic somehow...but he seems got other intention behind the sharing. . Lately he suddenly likes to bring up xxx topics. Well, I'm ok with it, just formal discussion.. I don't care if that makes him horny, afterall just over the phone. . We often chat till midnight.. I'm really wondering, married guy staying under same roof with wife, how is he able to chit chat with other girl whole night long? I am just guessing from the wife's Facebook that they are still together because there are still recent family photos posted.. . anilin liked this post
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QUOTE(anilin @ Nov 22 2020, 08:14 AM) . TS just a suggestion. If you really want to know if he is single ask him for his FB profile.1. 80% of the time we are talking about academics stuff. 2. He doesnt admit he's married. Takkan I so Kehpo go korek his FB and ask him? 3. We don't share Facebook or other social media. Say you prefer talking on there. See his reply. If he shares with you then you can be quite sure if he is single yourself. There is a chance that is his ex-wife or planning a divorce. So, its not wrong to say he is single. As a guy myself, i know of a few friends just throw bait everywhere hopping to catch a innocent or clueless person who bites. From what i read from the first page is that you might be someone that very busy and does not have time to met many people. This someone praising and flirting with you is making you happy. I presume you are a doctor in a hospital. (I might be wrong) What you are craving is not love but attention from someone to give you physical validation especially from him who is a smart, more accomplish person than you at the moment. Just dont cross the line until he is fully honest, if anything you will be breaking 4 hearts. Your own, his wife, him and their kid. This post has been edited by windvind: Nov 23 2020, 11:22 AM Endeavour liked this post
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Hi Lenglui...
Can I start a chat as well? LOL... Anyway, the only reason I call girls lenglui is when I wanna feel like we are close due to work (not colleagues) but not bothered enough to remember their names. |
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After 3 pages, I still don't see what TS is actually asking. It seems she likes the attention. So, she thinks it is ok to entertain the fella's XXX comments. A rationale person will not entertain a married person.
The fact that she is justifying why she should continue shows she isn't rationale. There are other academicians out there who can assist, not to mention Mr. Google. Thus, all her post in here is just seek acceptance from the internet of what she is doing. |
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QUOTE(anilin @ Nov 23 2020, 02:48 PM) hmm... you figure out la.. hahhaai think i knwo you hahaha anilin liked this post
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QUOTE(anilin @ Nov 23 2020, 12:06 AM) I'm seriously not sure what's his marriage status. He never admitted he's married and Facebook only show some family pictures. All the more fishy character. But anyway, its your choice. Just remember that what you do will have their own set of consequences if you were to continue it like this. But if you end it, maybe the right one pops up. ![]() |
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QUOTE(anilin @ Nov 23 2020, 04:04 PM) hhahaha.... why u ignore me all this while leh?? ![]() anilin liked this post
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And the plot deepens with the emergence of an ex bf....
*takes popcorn* |
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QUOTE(anilin @ Nov 25 2020, 12:54 AM) wah lau wei... why u like married man meh? anilin liked this post
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dont play with fire..everything will burn..everything
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predict gonna be a lot of crosstalk in this thread :-D
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