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ck_boon
post Nov 22 2020, 04:29 AM

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u said u try to avoid but u sendiri mau chat dengan dia sampai tengah malam
halo u know him dah kahwin right? why u still play fire?
either delete him ignore or stay continue become third party lor
there is no such thing as become just frend
btw i know u also boring
TSanilin
post Nov 22 2020, 07:43 AM

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QUOTE(ck_boon @ Nov 22 2020, 04:29 AM)
u said u try to avoid but u sendiri mau chat dengan dia sampai tengah malam
halo u know him dah kahwin right? why u still play fire?
either delete him ignore or stay continue become third party lor
there is no such thing as become just frend
btw i know u also boring
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I'm just guessing...as he never admitted he's attached though i keep asking.... I'm only seeing from Facebook.

This post has been edited by anilin: Nov 22 2020, 07:43 AM
uk15029
post Nov 22 2020, 07:45 AM

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Why you want to chat with married guy?

Stop it
TSanilin
post Nov 22 2020, 08:14 AM

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QUOTE(uk15029 @ Nov 22 2020, 07:45 AM)
Why you want to chat with married guy?

Stop it
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1. 80% of the time we are talking about academics stuff.
2. He doesnt admit he's married. Takkan I so Kehpo go korek his FB and ask him?
3. We don't share Facebook or other social media.

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post Nov 22 2020, 09:49 AM

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QUOTE(anilin @ Nov 22 2020, 09:14 AM)
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1. 80% of the time we are talking about academics stuff.
2. He doesnt admit he's married. Takkan I so Kehpo go korek his FB and ask him?
3. We don't share Facebook or other social media.
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20% is XXX stuff?
Block him and move on
He is married...
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post Nov 22 2020, 09:49 AM

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So what is your intention.

Do you want to be more than just academic support friends

Btw, a man will not chat with another woman for so long without some intentions other than just supporting a fellow course mate


Just ask him.. Are you married

If he says no, send him his photos with his wife and family

Tell him that you don't want his wife to misunderstand your relationship



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post Nov 22 2020, 10:08 AM

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QUOTE(anilin @ Nov 22 2020, 08:14 AM)
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1. 80% of the time we are talking about academics stuff.
2. He doesnt admit he's married. Takkan I so Kehpo go korek his FB and ask him?
3. We don't share Facebook or other social media.
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That's an odd answer to that question... Are you trying to justify yourself talking to a married man? That "I technically don't know because he never told me, and therefore I'm not at fault"? How are you holding up inside?

It doesn't sound like you're in love or got deep into him so pull out while you still can la. Karma is a bitch
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post Nov 22 2020, 10:27 AM

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U are trying to twist and turn

And justify your wrong doing to chat with a married man
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post Nov 22 2020, 11:11 AM

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I'm gonna be the devil's advocate here. There is nothing wrong talking to a guy, married or otherwise.
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post Nov 22 2020, 11:22 AM

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QUOTE(anilin @ Nov 21 2020, 08:03 PM)
Few months ago one of my classmate (online course thingy) text me personally to ask about serious matter.  It was just normal chat once a while.
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After 1 month, he suddenly addresses me Lenglui, and started other topics but I consider it as casual chat, we often exchange lunch photos, etc.. Few times he would ask whether got miss him or not? I avoided these kind of questions most time. I found his profile in facebook and happened to know he's married with a son somemore. He's younger than me 4 years but he lied about his age, and status too. Guess that's common.
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We talked in phone before for like only 1 minute, and video call for 2 minutes.
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He will share to me many info and case studies related to our field of studies.. Helped in my academic somehow...but he seems got other intention behind the sharing.

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Lately he suddenly likes to bring up xxx topics. Well, I'm ok with it, just formal discussion.. I don't care if that makes him horny, afterall just over the phone.
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We often chat till midnight.. I'm really wondering, married guy staying under same roof with wife, how is he able to chit chat with other girl whole night long?  I am just guessing from the wife's Facebook that they are still together because there are still recent family photos posted..
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QUOTE(anilin @ Nov 22 2020, 08:14 AM)
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1. 80% of the time we are talking about academics stuff.
2. He doesnt admit he's married. Takkan I so Kehpo go korek his FB and ask him?
3. We don't share Facebook or other social media.
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I'm guessing he is probably not looking fugly, good sweet talker, perhaps a little rich too.

No worries just continue what u doing sooner or later u will think kissing is ok too, and then more and more ok things too.

Anyway what's ur question again?
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post Nov 22 2020, 11:34 AM

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QUOTE(anilin @ Nov 21 2020, 11:04 PM)
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I'm thinking about quit talking to him, but somehow I feel I need him for some advantages in my academic. Are we taking advantages of each other?
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From what I read it is you who taking advantage of him unless you satisfy his horny then you can say you both taking advantage of each other
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post Nov 22 2020, 12:19 PM

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QUOTE(anilin @ Nov 21 2020, 08:39 PM)
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Haha. late 30s considered aunties ya? Still single and hot yo.
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Haha. Bagus. Liking the confidence!
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post Nov 22 2020, 01:13 PM

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I once matched with a pilot on Tinder and we met up twice but everything was very platonic (he was a nice guy and there weren’t any xxx talk at all). One day, he sent me a photo of him with his crew mates and I spot a wedding ring so I asked if he’s married. He didn’t deny and said yes.

After that, I stopped talking to him already. Why bother? I hope you’d stop talking to him too before any damage is done!


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post Nov 22 2020, 02:36 PM

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QUOTE(Vrese @ Nov 22 2020, 11:34 AM)
From what I read it is you who taking advantage of him unless you satisfy his horny then you can say you both taking advantage of each other
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+1

he's the one at the losing end because he didnt gain anything yet biggrin.gif

while TS got all the advantage from the academic assistance.
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post Nov 22 2020, 02:39 PM

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QUOTE(Blofeld @ Nov 22 2020, 02:36 PM)
+1

he's the one at the losing end because he didnt gain anything yet  biggrin.gif

while TS got all the advantage from the academic assistance.
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He got to see my pretty photos and 20% of our chat topics should be able to turn him on.
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post Nov 22 2020, 02:42 PM

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QUOTE(jasonlim @ Nov 22 2020, 10:27 AM)
U are trying to twist and turn

And justify your wrong doing to chat with a married man
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Problem is he never admitted though I asked few times. He said he's single. Therefore I'm wondering, if married with wife and kid around, able to hook on phone till late night?
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post Nov 22 2020, 03:00 PM

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QUOTE(anilin @ Nov 21 2020, 08:03 PM)
he would ask whether got miss him or not?
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this is entrée
QUOTE(anilin @ Nov 21 2020, 08:03 PM)
Lately he suddenly likes to bring up xxx topics.
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this is common for gauging the advancement / further action from your response
(e.g. a physical contact will probably start by touching hand, from you reaction, then maybe it could end up in other parts)
i bet the next thing he would do is asking to meet in person

QUOTE(anilin @ Nov 21 2020, 08:03 PM)
He will share to me many info and case studies related to our field of studies.. Helped in my academic somehow...

We often chat till midnight.. I'm really wondering, married guy staying under same roof with wife, how is he able to chit chat with other girl whole night long?
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good effort there
TSanilin
post Nov 22 2020, 03:37 PM

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QUOTE(1mr3tard3d @ Nov 22 2020, 03:00 PM)
this is entrée

this is common for gauging the advancement / further action from your response
(e.g. a physical contact will probably start by touching hand, from you reaction, then maybe it could end up in other parts)
i bet the next thing he would do is asking to meet in person
good effort there
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We are unable to meet, probably never. Too far apart. Different states.

We don't even have each others contact numbers. Chatting via Wechat with hidden profile somemore.
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post Nov 22 2020, 03:58 PM

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TS

He's looking for a cheap thrill, in the midst of this pandemic. Can't do anything physical, so looking for something else to bring some excitement to his life.

He clearly wants to deceive you, because he keeps saying he is single. How does he chat throughout the night? Easy, he just says he is doing his assignment/work.

The point is, he is definitely lying. To you and to his wife.

If you need his input to finish up the assignment/course, then keep it to that. Don't be surprised he will MIA one day.
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post Nov 22 2020, 04:45 PM

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Just set your own internal boundaries, TS.. but it's really best to keep it minimal in case it grows into something ugly.

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