baru kenal 28th oct, allow him to come to house with alcohol until 12.30 am?
wouldn't even let him in my house if it was me
Middle Eastern arrested after date rape Japanese
Middle Eastern arrested after date rape Japanese
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Nov 3 2020, 09:26 AM
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baru kenal 28th oct, allow him to come to house with alcohol until 12.30 am?
wouldn't even let him in my house if it was me |
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Nov 3 2020, 09:46 AM
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QUOTE(joedpa82 @ Nov 3 2020, 09:35 AM) i am not assuming. no one said we were in utopia. your previous statement gives a message that the woman should be blamed because she invited the guy into her house for food and alcohol and then sex. can't 2 person share food and beverages just because they are friends? the man here clearly has leverage in terms of power and he took advantage of the woman after she had said no. of course they can, but reality is such that not everyone is a saint, and that man choose to abuse his strength, after an alcoholic influence, or may be even drugs, who knows. he has since made it clear that he does not condone rape, it is just that the woman being too trusting to a newly known stranger is making things easier for the predator. for the female buddy i have known for 20 years, sure can go to house late nite even her husband know i won't be doing shit, cuz they know me well. if i am just a new face like kenal last week, and then i am going to a woman's house at 12.30am with alcohol, i don't think it even make sense for most people. May be in japan they are mostly very polite or follow the law, but then this can not be applied to everyone. it is not her fault for being raped. just that the precaution need to be taken with strangers. This post has been edited by pandah: Nov 3 2020, 09:49 AM |
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