i live in gated guarded individual title community for the past 10 years
all i can say is nowadays it's hard to get all people to agree on something
surely there's someone who claim to 'know' better (learn from youtube maybe)
also there's always an opposing team, oppose to whatever trying to make life difficult
without these agreement, the place become a boring place to live

so i move out to a safe place in a normal housing community
happy life