QUOTE(TianJian @ Jul 30 2020, 06:10 PM)
obviously the lady is problem. maintain distance.got sexual harassment warning from hr, update
got sexual harassment warning from hr, update
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Jul 30 2020, 06:11 PM
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Jul 30 2020, 06:16 PM
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QUOTE(TianJian @ Jul 30 2020, 06:04 PM) there is alot girl wear short skirt , why didnt saw they report me and other people ? obviously , ugly make them feel like sexual harrasment onwards them , when handsome , do u think it will become sexual harrastment ? My advise is dont ever resign due to this reason, else you will be blacklisted hamsap forevar........ fight it, or never....... If me, I will never talk to look at this colleague again even I have too ....... |
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Jul 30 2020, 06:17 PM
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Eh teruknye.
Ya demand a meeting with HR, your superior, and the accuser with cctv evidence. |
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Jul 30 2020, 06:20 PM
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Don't resign, avoid her, talk to her from a distance if needed to on a louder tone.
Won't teach you more. Woman like this will meet her match one day till she resigns. |
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Jul 30 2020, 06:30 PM
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Demand proof from HR, if you really did no wrong. if none provided or no proof of accusation then can report police or some other authorities, or you can sue them back. It caused you damage on reputation
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Jul 30 2020, 06:45 PM
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QUOTE(TianJian @ Jul 30 2020, 06:03 PM) got cctv... well, you can demand HR to proof it and if they cant, then issue statement. else, you can choose to sue the company. if you dont clear your name, your next job refer call and HR tell them you have this record then you sure gg.fight , fight end up i get what ? the girl ? cause the big boss is bit racist , i scared because of racist , i lose no matter how i fight and ald no matter what i say , they still insist i sexual harrasment xswatch liked this post
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Jul 30 2020, 08:23 PM
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everything talk evidence mah nowadays
when talking to her, stay 3m away, do it very purposely, let her no face lo |
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Jul 30 2020, 08:36 PM
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this is a serious accusation. dont take it lying down when you are innocent.
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Jul 30 2020, 08:52 PM
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QUOTE(TianJian @ Jul 30 2020, 06:03 PM) got cctv... Then put it into use, if not ppl say you pervfight , fight end up i get what ? the girl ? cause the big boss is bit racist , i scared because of racist , i lose no matter how i fight and ald no matter what i say , they still insist i sexual harrasment |
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Jul 30 2020, 09:28 PM
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just got chat with my friends as he work as lowyer , we will meet the management on monday , and i go make a police report
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Jul 30 2020, 09:36 PM
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Jul 31 2020, 09:55 AM
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Sue bro.. Drag the company to court.. Watch the movie disclosure
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Jul 31 2020, 11:05 AM
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QUOTE(TianJian @ Jul 30 2020, 04:10 PM) i work as IT management, got this new girl join the management , we talk about works and things , If u're innocent, face the HR, ask for prove, as this kind of allegation can lead them to court. No need to be scare if u never done this kind of things.yesterday , cause i cook and go pantry eat , saw her eat alone . than ask her what she eating , she reply and ya i go eat own self on other table today morning , HR called me to speak personally in a meeting , and give me warning letting say i sexual harrasment this woman ! i was like stun for few sec and what the Fxxx?? i only meet her in officer not even touched her so if i face her , should i ignore her or just let it be ? some of my friend told me its maybe a tactics from company want to fire people ? as i saw alot people got immediate resign |
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Jul 31 2020, 02:18 PM
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there are some girls who are very very sensitive
from dating apps can already see even casual chat, they can feel offended. when u don't even say anything sexual or offensive jokes. not at all. normal girls will reply normally to casual chat, those sensitive type they will view everything like threats. for those who have gf/wife will also know. On normal days when u talk normally everything will be normal But when she has periods, even the very same thing u say could make her angry that will make u ponder what have I said wrongly? so, unfortunately either u have encountered someone very sensitive or it's that time of the month. |
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Jul 31 2020, 02:24 PM
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Jul 31 2020, 09:20 PM
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That's dangerous. I want to advise go confront her and clear things up, but who's to say she wont spin new lies and say you tried to do things to her?
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Jul 31 2020, 09:55 PM
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Aug 1 2020, 12:25 AM
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If I were you. I will file a case against the management on their negligence for handing me a sexual harassment warning without conducting any investigation on the allegation. File another case against that b*tch on potential abuse of sexual harassment protection which tarnishes my good name.
I hate rapist. I also hate people who makes up stories that they are raped as much if not even more. |
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Aug 1 2020, 01:05 AM
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Hr at least go tell you how you kacau her?
Cannot be just sexual harassment, so general. Like staring ka? Touching kukubird ka? |
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Aug 1 2020, 06:42 PM
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report police for defamation
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