QUOTE(Aztec @ Aug 6 2020, 12:58 PM)
that is why for me when I go out on dating apps its always Dinner and Drinks for the first 2 dates. Why?
1st date
- Dinner is more chill and relaxed. Nothing too fancy but has to be a nice place
- Move on to a cool bar ie speakeasies which is not too noisy for some drinks and get to know each other better
- Send her home if you have to but nothing more than a hug
- Pay for everything and if she offers just say "you can pay the next time we meet"
2nd date
- Dinner. Same kinda vibe restaurant again (girls dig this stuff). Let her pay as promised.
- Next, cool bar ie speakeasies for drinks. Now this is where u close. If there was already some touching before this ie light touches on the hand or thigh then ur good to seal the deal by kissing her (u will learn from experience if the vibe is there)
- Go to ur place or hers and end of story
That my fellow guys is how you do it. Based on many years of being on dating apps and meeting girls.
never like dinner, it easily sets a wrong frame for beginners.1st date
- Dinner is more chill and relaxed. Nothing too fancy but has to be a nice place
- Move on to a cool bar ie speakeasies which is not too noisy for some drinks and get to know each other better
- Send her home if you have to but nothing more than a hug
- Pay for everything and if she offers just say "you can pay the next time we meet"
2nd date
- Dinner. Same kinda vibe restaurant again (girls dig this stuff). Let her pay as promised.
- Next, cool bar ie speakeasies for drinks. Now this is where u close. If there was already some touching before this ie light touches on the hand or thigh then ur good to seal the deal by kissing her (u will learn from experience if the vibe is there)
- Go to ur place or hers and end of story
That my fellow guys is how you do it. Based on many years of being on dating apps and meeting girls.
for me i prefer snack and drinks.
just dont do any boyfriend-girlfriend activity it will set wrong expectation.