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post Aug 4 2020, 10:25 AM

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QUOTE(Muz1234 @ Jul 23 2020, 12:29 AM)
Have you ever felt rugi like you spot a pretty girl somewhere, mall, street, etc. and then don't ask for her phone number?
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I think it is quite awkward for a girl to be approached by a total stranger and being asked for phone number. biggrin.gif
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post Aug 4 2020, 07:10 PM

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Are anyone will suddenly go to ask phone number?
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post Aug 4 2020, 09:10 PM

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Why not?

But definitely higher chance to do so while in overseas.
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post Aug 5 2020, 12:00 AM

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QUOTE(PJng @ Aug 4 2020, 07:10 PM)
Are anyone will suddenly go to ask phone number?
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of course you've to connect with her emotionally
otherwise the number is going to flake.
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post Aug 5 2020, 12:41 AM

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QUOTE(Napalm_man @ Aug 4 2020, 10:12 AM)
Yea I do think about asking for her number, but, she might be someone else girlfriend, fiance or wife. So no I didn't ask for her number at the end.
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find her cut for few times, then you may get a chance
engage with co workers as well, be friendly
then you'll have your way
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post Aug 5 2020, 12:42 AM

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QUOTE(Pakatan SinMa Plus @ Aug 4 2020, 10:25 AM)
I think it is quite awkward for a girl to be approached by a total stranger and being asked for phone number.  biggrin.gif
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if you're honest about your intention, and the way you came off is not creepy
you'll get her contact. But be prepared the first 2 mins she might not give you anything.
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post Aug 5 2020, 09:27 AM

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QUOTE(20191117 @ Aug 5 2020, 12:41 AM)
find her cut for few times, then you may get a chance
engage with co workers as well, be friendly
then you'll have your way
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Lol bro I do think about going to her saloon, but that be like once a month. And by the way the music school is nearby her place, like in the same row. Maybe I should drop by and greet her sometime, perhaps bought her some dessert.
We just met like 2 times, just having a short but fun conversation, really don't think it's a great idea to get her phone number yet. Hence I don't know if she already taken or available for relationship.

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post Aug 5 2020, 11:52 AM

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QUOTE(Napalm_man @ Aug 5 2020, 09:27 AM)
really don't think it's a great idea to get her phone number yet. Hence I don't know if she already taken or available for relationship.
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doesn't matter she's married or not unless you're tackling muslim woman.
if that person is not you, someone is going to sleep with her
that's just the reality of sexual marketplace.

if she's not being seen by other people talking to you, that's the better time to take down her number.
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post Aug 5 2020, 12:07 PM

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QUOTE(20191117 @ Aug 5 2020, 11:52 AM)
doesn't matter she's married or not unless you're tackling muslim woman.
if that person is not you, someone is going to sleep with her
that's just the reality of sexual marketplace.

if she's not being seen by other people talking to you, that's the better time to take down her number.
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Since tonight I have class around 7.30pm, maybe I should get her taufufa and this time put my business card in the plastic bag. Instead of asking her, why not I just give her mine, what do u think?

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post Aug 5 2020, 12:11 PM

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QUOTE(Napalm_man @ Aug 5 2020, 12:07 PM)
Since tonight I have class around 7.30pm, maybe I should get her taufufa and this time put my business card in the plastic bag. Instead of asking her, why not I just give her mine, what do u think?
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you had one of the ways, dont ask for daddy permission.
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QUOTE(20191117 @ Aug 5 2020, 12:11 PM)
you had one of the ways, dont ask for daddy permission.
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Just need an opinion though
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post Aug 5 2020, 01:06 PM

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QUOTE(Napalm_man @ Aug 5 2020, 12:16 PM)
Just need an opinion though
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seek more opportunities then you will not cling to any outcome
Anything in life bow down to choices.
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post Aug 13 2020, 12:46 PM

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What for

Pretty girls most taken
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post Aug 13 2020, 12:48 PM

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QUOTE(Napalm_man @ Aug 5 2020, 12:07 PM)
Since tonight I have class around 7.30pm, maybe I should get her taufufa and this time put my business card in the plastic bag. Instead of asking her, why not I just give her mine, what do u think?
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100% kena rejek haha

better you approach and say, hi, can you please misscall my number, cus i think i lost my phone

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post Aug 13 2020, 01:12 PM

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QUOTE(Napalm_man @ Aug 5 2020, 12:16 PM)
Just need an opinion though
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how's the progress? lol
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post Aug 13 2020, 01:13 PM

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QUOTE(Lyu @ Aug 13 2020, 12:46 PM)
What for

Pretty girls most taken
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pretty girls are friendlier when you approach (for the most part), cause less guys approach them in general
that's just my experience.
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post Aug 13 2020, 01:15 PM

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Follow her and see which restaurant she went in. Just scribe the no. from the log book.
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post Aug 13 2020, 01:19 PM

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I used to do these when i was single

1)got other girls number (the one i aim no layan me)
2)other people fiancee (straight away i no kacau)

Lol
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post Aug 13 2020, 02:20 PM

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QUOTE(leah235 @ Aug 13 2020, 12:48 PM)
100% kena rejek haha

better you approach and say, hi, can you please misscall my number, cus i think i lost my phone

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Man...I thought this topic is dead, btw I was nervous and didn't pass my phone to her. Yesterday I got class, so I dropped by her saloon and bought her cheese cake, 1 for her and 1 for her colleague(kind of feel bad that previously I only bought for her).
And no I still haven't pass my phone number to her, still nervous. My hand is shaking when leaving, but I smile all the way to my car.
She was smiling(oh man that cute smile though), I was like forgotten my script, ended up just having a very short conversation, but I can see she wanted to hear more what I said, I just too nervous.
No I don't wan visit her like 2-3 times a week, kind of creepy don't you think? Once a week is enough, next visit I definitely will pass my phone number to her.

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post Aug 13 2020, 02:22 PM

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QUOTE(BaseMod @ Jul 29 2020, 07:51 PM)
YES! I met this one girl close to digital mall. I was carrying a desktop to the  digital mall then she suddenly engaged in a conversation with me to promote UNHCR then we started talking about how college life sucked and how both of us felt miserable. She has the sawo matang malay skin colour which I suspect she is baba nyonya since she said she is from Malacca. Anyway I didn't got the courage to ask her hahaha. I met her again with her group of friends on my way to jumaat but then to no avail I was too afraid. sad.gif
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One thing you should have asked instead of her number is her Facebook/ Instagram. Back in the old days it's always a "phone number" before any social media became popular. A 'phone number' is merely a mean/way to get in touch. It's the same by adding someone on Social Media coz you can now DM or PM on messenger. If things are cool from there, casually ask if you can talk to her via Whatsapp instead. You'll naturally get her number.

And instead of saying "can i get your number?" the better phrase to use is, "Do you mind if we exchange contact to keep in touch?" --> same objective but the first one sounded like you're out to get her number, and 2nd phrase sounded more like friends who hit it off wanting to continue the conversation. Just my 2 cents.

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