not a good sign...
if 40 dont have child , better forget it.

because, there will be a period when this child have
their own opinion, buat pasal, then we need to comply.

if you are getting child in mid 20 or mid 30 consider ok.

but 40? at the age of 60, your child will be 20 and in rebellious stages stooges or snowflakes.

unless u consider adoption option.