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TSmelissaazevedo P
post Jul 14 2020, 05:13 PM, updated 6y ago

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What is your idea about having a child around 35-40 age for a female.. I'm not financially stable yet and I have essential goals in my life to complete.I'm sure I'will turn 35 when I complete all these things..Scientifically, below 30 is recommend for child.But, I can't accept it as I have life goals. If some one has or had the same situation today I am.. I would be happy to have some advice..
matiko95
post Jul 14 2020, 05:32 PM

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not a good sign...
if 40 dont have child , better forget it.

because, there will be a period when this child have
their own opinion, buat pasal, then we need to comply.

if you are getting child in mid 20 or mid 30 consider ok.

but 40? at the age of 60, your child will be 20 and in rebellious stages stooges or snowflakes.

unless u consider adoption option.

Ewa Wa
post Jul 15 2020, 07:38 PM

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Sometimes, plan didn’t go as smooth. What if your body can’t conceive at the age of 35yo? This is something very regret of. If u can just conceived now and go with the goals and money along the way.
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post Jul 16 2020, 10:08 AM

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It can be done and having kids when you are financially stable is always a good thing.

Just make sure to go through all the necessary down syndrome tests, frequent ultrasound scans and all..

It's true that the odds of complications is higher as you get older, but it doesn't mean you will get the odds. Most pregnancies still turn out normal.

The other thing is your age gap may make it harder to understand or bond with your kids. You may not be able to understand what youths do these days compared when you were in your 20s and having your first child.

 

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