QUOTE(Napalm_man @ Aug 28 2020, 12:37 PM)
I seriously never thought of saying “hey we should stop seeing each other.” or “hey I only want to be friend.” to her.
Based of what she did to me last few days, I can see she’s trying pretty hard to get me to accept her and expecting us to go beyond friendship after that night. God knows what she’s prepared if I really go accompany her that night.
It is kind of obvious and desperate move, maybe because I never reject anyone, and now I kind of pity her about what happened. And tend to not making the situation much worse, I’ll just be the nice guy instead.
No I never initiate anything, text or call, it was her who initiate those.
It is useless, no matter what tricks she pulled on me, it won’t work.
even when she initiate.
ignore.
dont even reply.
let her understand that u are not interested.
if u reply (even just as friends), she will always think she has a chance.
ive had my fair share of experiences. you can say im quite attractive.
local, foreigner, malay, non-malay, me as a foreigner (i stayed overseas 6 years). young, old, someone's wife, someone's gf, someone's fiancee, all have experience.
dont get me wrong,like you, i also dont kacau other guy's woman. they are the one who pursued me, and i said no.
better to cut clean, less drama.
some people, they love the drama. but me? no thanks.
now im married, with kid, different ball game.
i thought after married lesser drama. but actually same, only different game.
married man has a certain attraction to certain type of woman as well.
so if u wanna ask for an opinion, if i can help, i will try to