QUOTE(windvind @ Jul 6 2020, 11:30 AM)
Can bring her go cuti cuti Malaysia, sometime away from work.
Talk to her seriously about your future.
If you think she is the one then be honest and tell her, what you think deep down. But dont marry just because after x years then seem like the next thing to do.
Also, very strong financial backing is X amount in bank or in shares or how she wants to quantify it. How does she come to the conclusion of your financial situation.
Does she know sensitive information on how much you make and how much you have prepared in your savings?
Say for marriage savings and rainy day savings. Personally, i think its okay to disclose some but not all.
Talk to her seriously about your future.
If you think she is the one then be honest and tell her, what you think deep down. But dont marry just because after x years then seem like the next thing to do.
Also, very strong financial backing is X amount in bank or in shares or how she wants to quantify it. How does she come to the conclusion of your financial situation.
Does she know sensitive information on how much you make and how much you have prepared in your savings?
Say for marriage savings and rainy day savings. Personally, i think its okay to disclose some but not all.
QUOTE(1mr3tard3d @ Jul 6 2020, 01:01 PM)
this is certainly an uncertainty
remember
should definitely avoid doing this, you could end the relationship without a ring but you need a talk
well, i know that you are ready but she is not
and the reason could be none from your list
thank you both, maybe a few months later, i will bring this up again, dont want to be pushy. remember
should definitely avoid doing this, you could end the relationship without a ring but you need a talk
well, i know that you are ready but she is not
and the reason could be none from your list
QUOTE(ZzZzz... @ Jul 6 2020, 11:02 AM)
i think both of u really have to take this topic seriously, plan a date, sit down, discuss deeply what future u both planned,
myself facing similar situation too, aiks
how are you dealing with it?myself facing similar situation too, aiks