just asking, as a man i always use tote bag when i go out or to mall. but i rarely seen men using totebag, mostly female using it. does a tote bag consider a feminine item?

tote bag can be used by male/female. no issues.

yeah, i like to use it, is functional, but seem like is not really part of male fashion is it?

Well, it is though.

this is one of it by off-white

i using kinokuniya one haha

I don't mind using one. It can be used by both sexes.
Using one doesn't make me less manly.