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Advice Wanted How did you leave your spouse who refused divorce?, Small things, big things, share all pls
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silverhawk
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May 9 2024, 11:24 PM
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QUOTE(parisiansky @ May 9 2024, 04:51 PM) Yes, I know that my family n my frens can change. And that is why I don't wanna add more dramas on my plate by being in a rship.Plus I'm fiercely independent. I'm happier being single. Its unlikely for your happiness to stay with you long term if you always avoid suffering. Eventually it catches up to you, and you won't be equipped to deal with it.
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silverhawk
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May 10 2024, 01:58 PM
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QUOTE(parisiansky @ May 10 2024, 11:44 AM) Please.. U have no idea how much suffering I'm dealing with at my current workplace. Don't need more suffering to make my life worse. Dealing with each prob at a time right now so don't act like u know how I'm dealing with suffering in my life. I think you don't even realise you just proved my point
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silverhawk
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May 10 2024, 02:15 PM
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QUOTE(parisiansky @ May 10 2024, 02:10 PM) Thanks for making more assumptions about me & my life. Keep 'em coming! You are assuming I'm making assumptions of your life. I'm not, I can just clearly see you cannot handle suffering.
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silverhawk
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May 10 2024, 02:50 PM
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QUOTE(parisiansky @ May 10 2024, 02:30 PM) And I'm not gonna continue wasting my energy arguing with a person who's still denying that he/she is making assumptions abt me. Pls stick yr nose into other ppl's pie instead. Bye! All I did was share some wisdom to someone who's obviously struggling. Whatever I said obviously triggered you, and you turned it into an argument as a defense mechanism. That reflex you had, is one of the main causes of your suffering.
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