Your husband is IT guy izit..it guys are mostly lazy or couch fella.they dont care about the world around them.
They have simple let it be attitude .

When he doing something..dont disturb him..he will answer u frustratedly.

Threaten him a divorce..he will repent, and months later go back to his normal attitude.

With your body,I dont c which guy dont wanna sleep with u.

Go c his bebird..maybe got problem ,he dunno how to tell u.