wah its now 2024.... any updates? I'm a guy and i think im going thru similar situation like u now..... married for 3.5 yrs alredi....

Its easier said than done.... multiple times she wanted me to change n to listen.... but i think i've tried my best alredi to listen.... but women like to accumulate the stuff we men do wrongs and she keep saying 4 yrs alredi i do not need to explain to u again and again why u need to listen.... theres alot of communication breakdown.... when i try to explain to her the reason she will take it as it is her fault.....n im being defensive..... its no way to communicate like that.....until a point i just keep quiet n say ok u win! u r right..... tooo lazy to continue.... almost 98% of the time is me apologizing.... n the more i think about it.... the more WTF i felt.....its getting ridiculous.... esp about the chinese race thingi in my other post.

She also assume we r in the marriage as i need a maid to cook ....WTF?! 80% of the housework is done my me....from laundry to vacuum n mop of floors.....wash toilets.... etc.... i tot if im doing all the house chores she just cover the cooking part is not too much to ask for.... but it also an issue for her..... btw, she is a full time house wives.... not working.....and im working full time....

Oh well........ my life now.... first time going thru such rocky marriage as well......