So many people just ask her to divorce the husband, quite harsh but what do you guys take marriage for?

Tbh TS, you need to communicate with your husband tho, what can you two improve in order for him to return back to you.

It's easier to do the blame game like oh it's his fault, this is all his fault, but it might be something that you do that also turn him off.

I'm not siding anyone here, but in most case of divorce that I saw unfortunately the couples usually have communication breakdown which lead to more fights.

You have to understand that every human being is dff and through time we change as well. What seems nice yesterday might not seem like the best thing on earth anymore.

However, if you don't communicate with your spouse and just let go and get divorce without knowing what cause it in the first place, you will go into the next relationship carrying the same attitude and baggage from the current one.

I hope you and your husband work things through.