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Advice Wanted Marriage Life - No more sex in our marriage

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Ralna
post May 19 2020, 07:27 PM

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TS, how was your husband's bedroom performance in the past?
Did he enjoy sex or did he face some problems with intercourse?
How long has he been addicted to porn?
(These are private questions; you may keep the answers to yourself.)

FYI, sometimes, men avoid sex because they don't want their women to find out their impotence or erectile dysfunction. This may be why he's addicted to porn because it's a form of "physical exercise" for him, or it may be because porn addiction causes him to be even more dysfunctional.

I may be wrong, but this is one of the possible causes of why he loses interest and refuses physical sex.

Being a man, he definitely won't tell you about his inability to have normal, healthy sexual intercourse. It's too embarrassing for most men to tell their women that they just can't perform well in bed.

Here's a medical research that relates porn and sexual dysfunction:

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Study Sees Link Between Porn and Sexual Dysfunction
It could be creating unrealistic expectations for young, inexperienced men, researcher says

FRIDAY, May 12, 2017 (HealthDay News) -- Young men who prefer pornography to real-world sexual encounters might find themselves caught in a trap, unable to perform sexually with other people when the opportunity presents itself, a new study reports.

Porn-addicted men are more likely to suffer from erectile dysfunction and are less likely to be satisfied with sexual intercourse, according to survey findings presented Friday at the American Urological Association's annual meeting, in Boston.
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Watching too much internet porn can increase a person's "tolerance," the same as with narcotics, Christman explained. Regular porn watchers are less likely to respond to regular, real-world sexual activity, and must increasingly rely on pornography for release, he said.

Read more: https://www.webmd.com/sex/news/20170512/stu...ual-dysfunction



I hope this can shed some light on your current situation. Please seek professional help.

This post has been edited by Ralna: May 19 2020, 07:50 PM

 

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