Dear TS,

Please just ignore those fella who asked for height/weight/body size or whatever. Personally i think even the questions are sexist, and shallow. I'm not sure if they are married, but i can feel they just didn't understand how marriage works.

CC isn't a good place to get constructive advice, especially about marriage.

Pre-marital advice ... maybe
Post-marital advice .... hardly

Personally, I love my wife's self-confidence. I didn't know where she draws her confidence from, though at this point she has nothing much and financially dependent on me i would say. And yes, we have been married for yearsssssssssssssssss .. and going strong.

Don't bother to seek your answer here.
Probably better get some professional counselling service, if you can afford.