Just walk away from engaging further and do something that you enjoy doing.
"Neutralized" the triggering point.
Bad temper / emotional problem.
Bad temper / emotional problem.
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May 6 2020, 01:57 AM
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Just walk away from engaging further and do something that you enjoy doing.
"Neutralized" the triggering point. |
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May 7 2020, 08:32 PM
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QUOTE(cmytwk @ May 5 2020, 11:03 PM) The "Real" you make you anger.... Hey, I once read a book called A complaint free world (不抱怨的世界). I read the chinese version.if you understand well the above... Hope you had learned during this MCO period: 1) Drink more warm water, add some lemon / vinegar/ ginger 2) consume less accidy foods 3) consume more fruits and veges 4) Practice relaxing exercise such as yoga 5) Silent sit for 10mins - 15mins everyday You should be gratitude if your parents still around and nagging you, if one day those sounds disappear; what should you do? Hope the above help. If you need more assistant, do PM me. Thanks, cmytwk The philosophy discussed in the book completely changed my views on other people, and I learnt to see things in other people's perspective. That calms me down a lot. Also anger management is basically emotional control - and it all comes down to using our willpower to suppress being controlled by emotions. Willpower: Rediscovering Our Greatest Strength - this book is a good read if you would like to know more about willpower. Anyways the key takeaways: Fluctuations in sugar levels can deplete our willpower quicker. Low GI foods are better for our willpower. Meditation helps to improve our willpower. Adequate sleep and good nutrition are important too. Hope this helps. |
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May 7 2020, 08:36 PM
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Get good sex or not? Ever hit people because they make u mad? Try it, u will feel good...slap them, kick their butt, thigh but dont hit behind the head, adam apple, private part or rib
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May 7 2020, 08:37 PM
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QUOTE(Pjuan2013 @ May 7 2020, 08:32 PM) Hey, I once read a book called A complaint free world (不抱怨的世界). I read the chinese version. yeah...u r right....The philosophy discussed in the book completely changed my views on other people, and I learnt to see things in other people's perspective. That calms me down a lot. Also anger management is basically emotional control - and it all comes down to using our willpower to suppress being controlled by emotions. Willpower: Rediscovering Our Greatest Strength - this book is a good read if you would like to know more about willpower. Anyways the key takeaways: Fluctuations in sugar levels can deplete our willpower quicker. Low GI foods are better for our willpower. Meditation helps to improve our willpower. Adequate sleep and good nutrition are important too. Hope this helps. thanks. |
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May 8 2020, 05:01 PM
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QUOTE(hotguuy @ May 1 2020, 11:05 PM) I think I m bad temper... When people criticized me, I get easily irritated and mad. Same boat as you TS.. still working on thisThough I do not do something dangerous, the anger doesn't go away immediately. It lasts hours. Any solutions? *blood pressure normal. (on d lower side) |
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May 8 2020, 09:45 PM
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