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precept66
post May 6 2020, 01:57 AM

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Just walk away from engaging further and do something that you enjoy doing.
"Neutralized" the triggering point.
Pjuan2013
post May 7 2020, 08:32 PM

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QUOTE(cmytwk @ May 5 2020, 11:03 PM)
The "Real" you make you anger....
if you understand well the above...

Hope you had learned during this MCO period:

1) Drink more warm water, add some lemon / vinegar/ ginger
2) consume less accidy foods
3) consume more fruits and veges
4) Practice relaxing exercise such as yoga
5) Silent sit for 10mins - 15mins everyday

You should be gratitude if your parents still around and nagging you, if one day those sounds disappear; what should you do?

Hope the above help.
If you need more assistant, do PM me.

Thanks,
cmytwk
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Hey, I once read a book called A complaint free world (不抱怨的世界). I read the chinese version.

The philosophy discussed in the book completely changed my views on other people, and I learnt to see things in other people's perspective.

That calms me down a lot.

Also anger management is basically emotional control - and it all comes down to using our willpower to suppress being controlled by emotions.

Willpower: Rediscovering Our Greatest Strength - this book is a good read if you would like to know more about willpower.

Anyways the key takeaways:

Fluctuations in sugar levels can deplete our willpower quicker. Low GI foods are better for our willpower.
Meditation helps to improve our willpower.
Adequate sleep and good nutrition are important too.

Hope this helps.




chilskater
post May 7 2020, 08:36 PM

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Get good sex or not? Ever hit people because they make u mad? Try it, u will feel good...slap them, kick their butt, thigh but dont hit behind the head, adam apple, private part or rib
cmytwk
post May 7 2020, 08:37 PM

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QUOTE(Pjuan2013 @ May 7 2020, 08:32 PM)
Hey, I once read a book called A complaint free world (不抱怨的世界). I read the chinese version.

The philosophy discussed in the book completely changed my views on other people, and I learnt to see things in other people's perspective.

That calms me down a lot.

Also anger management is basically emotional control - and it all comes down to using our willpower to suppress being controlled by emotions.

Willpower: Rediscovering Our Greatest Strength - this book is a good read if you would like to know more about willpower.

Anyways the key takeaways:

Fluctuations in sugar levels can deplete our willpower quicker. Low GI foods are better for our willpower.
Meditation helps to improve our willpower.
Adequate sleep and good nutrition are important too.

Hope this helps.
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yeah...u r right....
thanks.

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turndownforhuat P
post May 8 2020, 05:01 PM

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QUOTE(hotguuy @ May 1 2020, 11:05 PM)
I think I m bad temper... When people criticized me, I get easily irritated and mad.
Though I do not do something dangerous, the anger doesn't go away immediately. It lasts hours.

Any solutions?

*blood pressure normal. (on d lower side)
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Same boat as you TS.. still working on this
cmytwk
post May 8 2020, 09:45 PM

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QUOTE(turndownforhuat @ May 8 2020, 05:01 PM)
Same boat as you TS.. still working on this
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Simple...not too hard to improve......

 

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