QUOTE(BillCollector @ May 15 2020, 06:26 PM)
The 2nd incident was from 11/2018 mostly.
That church guy showed up at the church in 1/2019 just before the house was demolished.
She let me take on the children 6/2019 (last week of it)
Last week of 8/2019 she came back and never left. This is where she decided to turn a new leaf.
Unfortunately that's the sad reality, between his ego, selfishness and stupidity he has ruined the livelihoods of many... siblings, nephews, nieces, wives and children as well as employees.
As for the MIL and FIL, visiting them isn't something we can do right now, last March we moved to Shanghai and before we left things were mostly a cold war because MIL told the wife she been disowned, something to do with a dispute they had in December where FIL told MIL he would like to live in a house rather than at a care home, MIL was living with us at that time and wanted to bring him to live with us in our house, wife said no as it wasn't convenient and she did not want the stress of having him in the house. Wife has decided she had done enough for them and to her only the children are #1... everything else doesn't matter.
This one I can answer you.
This guy I knew was messing with one girl from Sarawak, basically a married 45 year old guy who messed with an early 20s Iban girl who worked as a massage girl... even got her pregnant. He asked her for some time to settle the 1st wife and promised he would come back for her within the year. She found out he was playing her out and went to see one very powerful shaman.
I took a flight with him. KLIA - SIN.
When we were leaving KLIA, it definitely sets off the metal detectors and the handheld ones as well.
When we were leaving Singapore he wasn't allowed to board because it kept setting off the detectors. One of the body scanners at Changhi could pick up that he had metallic objects within his body and they brought him for an X-Ray.
They showed him the needles within his body after that. He wasn't allowed to board.
We took a bus and then brought him to SDMC where they did an Ultrasound on him, it didn't pick up. When they did a MRI on him, it did pick it up.
It was the MRI technician that told him most likely he had been BMed.
I've truly enjoyed reading all the stories/experiences you've posted so far. I'd have liked to say I would've done the same if ever presented with the same circumstances but to be honest I don't think I'd have the guts to pull off half the things you've done. Perhaps we can only know when truly facing the adversities ourselves.
Whether or not your stories are true, I have to give you the benefit of the doubt but I thank you for them, nonetheless. One thing's for sure, I'm sure glad things recovered between yourself and your wife. Best case scenario for your children, if nothing else.
Guess for all the enjoyment I've received from this thread so far, it's only fair I share an experience of my own. Nothing near as exciting Billcollector's, obviously.
I was in primary school and believe it was our final year (standard 6). My school was a very old one, it turned 100 years old when I was in Form 5. It was a pretty big school where it had both primary and secondary sections but each had its own library, computer rooms, football fields, classroom blocks, etc. In fact, the entire school had 3 fields, a basketball/tennis court, a building with badminton courts and we even had our own church and it was a pretty sizeable one. We had our own swimming pool, scouts house, hostel, etc, the works. It's a really old missionary school and our principals had always been Brothers, well at least it was until I left.
I digress. So in the corner of one of the primary school fields, there was this huge old tree and there was a monkey bar where kids would hang out during recess as it was shaded. It was right next to this old gymnasium that was perpetually locked up. The gym was a building of its own. It was REALLY old and we only ever went in once as part of a scout activity to try to clean the place up but it was a massive effort. Don't think we succeeded as most were afraid to go in.
I'm digressing further but the star of the story is actually this old huge tree next to the monkey bars. The tree was just like any other old tree but one day i saw an arrow carved into it. It was a pretty big and deep carving, at least 1 or 2 cm in diameter and depth (as wide as the tree itself), pointing towards the gymnasium. I pointed it out to my friends and no one realized it was there before. It didn't look like a new carving as it looked as aged as the rest of the tree. A couple of days later we went back and the arrow head, instead of pointing to the gym, has now turned 90 degrees and is pointing towards the base of the tree trunk and had the same aged look.
If someone had made a new carving, there should be the original arrow head pointing towards the gym but there was no trace of it. We went back again the following week and there was now no trace of the arrow at all.
Good thing it was the end of primary school and we never had the chance to go back to that field again once we got into secondary school as we had our own field and stuff.
Being 12 years old, we weren't really scared but it was a real WTF moment for us. Completely forgotten about it until I came into this thread.
Cheers.