Since Last year October, i found out my sister hangout closely with 1 guy which is around 36 named Wong , which is a married guy.

I usually don't care who she is really with .But thing getting serious. She lied to me and my family about the relationship with him.

I tired to convince my sister but she insist stick with him. Even though my sister tried to breakup with him but Wong always come back to her. As i heard from my sister , she is waiting for him to divorce ! But i know he is lying , because they already together for 7 months !

Wong is from Perak/ Ipoh , i guess his wife doesn't know about yet.

I wish somebody here know his wife and letting his wife know about this matter and making sure he stay away from my family.

My parents don't know anything about this and they already close to 70 ! i don't wish to be called mistress`s family !!! i am so afraid that my sister be caught and get viral on social media.

that's why i am here to seek for help. Hoping here got any woman/girl are from Ipoh who can help to prevent this . i don't know what to do anymore.

As much as i can share , Wong`s named JY and he is driving his new Toyota Vios. Handphone are 019-5175xxxx , he is about 180cm with spec.

ps: i know my sister are really wrong but i need to protect her and stopping this shit outside of my family before thing getting uglier. And she will move out again if i still against her.

Help~

I know u love yr sister and want the best for her. But she is already an adult who can decide for herself re: her love life. Even if it's a mistake, it's hers to make. Why do u need to control her life?
Perhaps you can ask to have a chat with the two of them and listen to their side of the story in a calm manner?

My sister knowing she is doing wrong and she did trying hard to breakup with him but she is not strong enough to do it. And she did even had a boyfriend in between but failed...hmm i shouldn't mentioned that.

She did show me the chat and prove me his promises. But i know the guy is really lying to her, all the chats are about the nonsense. And she also lied to me several time about ending their relationship until recently i still find out they are together . She will only listen to my mom but i don't wish to do that yet. This is the first time happens on my sister, lose her mind for the first time, and she is very weak in this kind of matter.

Married guy has always has this kind of problem. Perhaps this is the dilemma that every man will face once they reach certain age. As lady, we should try as much as possible not to interfere in others marriage or fall in love with such non-promiseable relationship. But it is always easy say than do.

How old is your sister???

if above 21,
let her path her life,
you can't be everyday overshadow her

Sorry had to say it these are shitty responses.

As a family member, it's part of our responsibilities to look out for our family and steer them away from trouble, especially life-destructing ones like drugs, mafia, crimes, ADULTERY.

This is not like choosing a wrong job or buying a wrong car/house. It's very serious, and definitely NOT something that you should allow them to do it "because they are adult and make their own decisions" thing. At least not without trying your best to stop them.

TS is doing right by trying to reach out in order to help his/her sister.

TS you can probably try to reach out to Ipoh's community help centres, and probably marriage counselling centers and see if they can suggest proper methods to help your sister by stopping the married man from adultery? Your sister might reject help because she might think she's not doing anything wrong, but the man is definitely doing something wrong, by ethics and by law. Call him out and get people's help to stop him.

TS, you opened this thread for this particular reason?

here wondering if ts have successfully break the sis up